Because in the learning career of high school, we need to face the most important exam in life - college entrance examination, so the learning atmosphere is much more tense than junior high school, and the pressure is much greater. Many children will escape from school because of their poor psychological endurance, and they will not want to go to school. So, what if high school kids don't want to go to school?
How to deal with high school children who don't want to go to school
1. Guide children to clarify learning objectives
Because such students do not understand the real purpose of learning, most of them believe that they learn for their parents and teachers, or for the sake of exam ranking. They have no clear goal and direction for their own future, but just follow the crowd. Therefore, as parents and teachers, they should guide students to give them clearer and more persistent goals, and have a reasonable plan for their future career, so that they can see the future, Re arouse learning motivation.
2. Stabilizing emotions
Such students are generally vulnerable to the influence of the surrounding environment, interpersonal relationships and other factors, so they can not study at ease, such as anxiety, insomnia, inattention, puppy love or dislike of a teacher. These troubles seriously consume their psychological resources, unable to play their potential, and finally their learning is seriously affected.
3. In depth communication and enlightenment
For students who are tired of learning, parents should communicate with them in depth to understand their children's inner thoughts. Some children are tired of learning and eager to be understood, so parents must face to face with students who are tired of learning, communicate frankly and understand their children's inner needs, so as to enlighten children's weariness and let them return to learning.
4. Reduce pressure for children
In the process of children's learning, parents should also pay attention to balancing their children's learning and rest. If children are learning all the time and do not get enough rest, they will easily become tired of learning. Parents should pay attention to the combination of work and rest. After the children finish their studies, they can take them out for sports, or mountain climbing, play and other activities to help them relieve pressure and effectively avoid their weariness of school.
5. Try to enter the child's heart
Children in high school have basically formed their own values and cognitive system. In addition to the influence of the rebellious period, students are easily bored with learning. What parents should do is try to enter the children's heart and become good friends with their children. Parents can find common hobbies with their children, such as playing basketball with their children and talking about beautiful cartoons with their children. It is the easiest time to open their children's hearts when they pursue things they love together. Parents can take this opportunity to talk with their children about why they are bored with school. I believe that children are also willing to talk about it.
What should we do if the high school children do not want to go to school? Parents must communicate with the children more to make them realize the importance of learning. Usually, we can also take the above methods to dispel their idea.
