Parents must pay attention to the problem of children's unfilial beating and scolding their parents. First, we should know the age of the child. If the child is still young and good, we can guide him slowly and tell him that this is wrong. If the child is already very old, we should take some necessary measures to make the child realize his mistakes and make changes. What if the children are not filial and beat and scold their parents?
How to deal with children's unfilial behavior, beating and scolding their parents
1. Stay calm
Don't scold or even fight with the child, because I guess you didn't hit him when you were young, or you seldom hit him. At this time, the time when you hit him has passed, which means that you missed the opportunity to use "hit" to educate children. On this issue, I think it is also necessary for children to "hit" properly when they are young. At present, when the child scolds you, don't scold him. When he calms down, calmly reason with him.
2. Create a good family environment
Family environment is crucial to the growth of children, including the relationship between husband and wife, parent-child relationship, etc. Parents should not behave badly in front of their children, fight or divorce, which will bring bad negative effects on their children. In addition, parents should pay attention to the way of communication with their children and the means of dealing with problems. Don't yell, punch and kick at children for their mistakes. A good family environment will help children grow up healthily.
3. Formulate punishment rules
Children will inevitably make mistakes. Whether these mistakes are intentional or unintentional, the important thing is how to deal with them. Therefore, parents should formulate corresponding punishment rules with their children in advance. The purpose of making rules is not to punish children, but to warn them not to make mistakes. It is necessary to let them form a good habit of self-discipline, develop their self-control ability, and pay attention to their own words and deeds at all times. At the same time, it is also helpful for parents to establish their own dignity and prestige, and will not let children be unscrupulous in front of their elders.
Reasons for children's unfilial behavior, beating and scolding their parents
1. Having bad habits
Some parents are very strict with their children's education at ordinary times. For example, they want their children to be polite and civilized, and they must have the quality to speak without swearing, but they are very lazy, and they are scolded, and even talk about people behind their backs. When a child meets such parents, it often exerts a subtle influence. If parents can't set a good example for their children, how can they let them learn well?
2. Endless tolerance to children
In the process of educating children, many parents will try to meet all the needs of their children. They are always patient with their children, but this will make their children become very arrogant and selfish. They even think that what parents do is reasonable. In the long run, parents will lose prestige in front of their children, and their words will have no weight.
3. Take the child as a pledge
Some parents live in a mess, but they put their treasure on their children, thinking that when their children grow up, they can stand out and lead a better life. Such parents do not take their children seriously, but use them as a tool, so they have no authority in front of their children.
What should parents do when their children beat and scold their parents when they are not filial? Parents should first keep calm and never fight with their children. This will not solve any problems, but only make things more serious. Sometimes, relax and pacify them to really solve the problem of children beating and scolding their parents when they are not filial.
