Children in junior high school still have a lot of subjects to learn. They need to keep an attitude of diligent learning, persevere in learning, and can't be lazy. If children usually meet bad classmates, they will be easily influenced by others. How to educate junior high school students who are addicted to novels?
How to educate junior high school students addicted to novels
1. Teach children to change the direction of reading
In fact, loving to read extracurricular novels is not all a bad thing. On the positive side, novels are rich in terms of depicting the psychological state of characters, scene description, emotional expression and the like. In fact, a composition requires a high level of understanding of these key points. If children abandon the bad factors in novels and learn good things, Then her composition will be better than before. The novels that children like to read can be replaced with books like natural history magazines or world classics that are more suitable for her grade. The effect will also be very good.
2. Guidance oriented
After finding that children read novels, parents should not take a tough attitude, which will only backfire and make children have rebellious mentality. Children are now in adolescence, and it is easy to have rebellious ideas. Therefore, parents should learn to follow their children's wishes in order to have an effect. We should give priority to guidance, talk about the importance of the high school entrance examination and guide children to think about their dreams.
3. Be prepared to talk with children
You can have a quiet talk with your child. For this talk, parents must prepare the content of the talk in advance and cut into your topic when the child is happy. Children in junior high school basically understand a lot of reasons, so don't say your reasons too simply, which will cause children's aversion. If it were me, I would take my children to a nearby park or a quiet place to have a look, and talk about my own experience while walking. For example, when I was in junior high school or high school, my classmates read novels that affected their learning, or their stories of the year. Try not to involve the child, let the child feel and find the problems in himself from another angle. I think children should be allowed to plan their own time.
4. Accompany children to learn and read together
If time permits, you can accompany children to learn together and try to enter the children's world, so that you can understand their ideas more. Remind children to listen carefully in class and concentrate on one thing. Otherwise, the class was not good, the novel was not good, and everything was delayed. Cultivating children is to dredge, not block. If you stop children's behavior blindly, children will become rebellious. It may be the best choice to accompany children to learn together while there is still some time.
How to educate junior high school students addicted to novels? Parents should communicate with their children patiently and don't get angry easily. You should stand on the same position with your children, so that you can give them some suggestions, and they can accept it and take a gentle way.
