The reason why children do not want to study in senior three may be due to various reasons, such as academic pressure, lack of motivation, lack of interest, difficulties and frustration. As parents, you can try the following methods to help children re-establish their interest and motivation in learning:
What should I do if my child doesn't want to learn in senior three?
1. Communication and listening
Open and sincere dialogue with children and listen to their thoughts and feelings. Understand why they lose motivation to learn and try to find the root of the problem.
2. Understanding and support
Express their understanding and support for their children, so that they can feel their family's concern and support for them. Encourage them to fully express their puzzles and challenges, and provide positive feedback and suggestions.
3 Goal setting and planning
Work with children to develop feasible goals and plans to help them understand the direction and importance of learning. Formulate specific learning plans according to children's conditions, including systematic time arrangement and reasonable goal decomposition.
4. Look for points of interest
Try to find subjects or themes that children are interested in, and use innovative learning methods or textbooks to stimulate their interests. Encourage them to participate in learning activities, such as field visits, discussions, experiments, etc.
5. Rewards and incentives
Establish a learning reward mechanism, such as setting small goals and giving rewards to encourage children to persist in learning. At the same time, provide a certain degree of freedom and rest time, so that children feel the balance between learning and entertainment.
6. Seek external help
If the situation is serious, seek professional counseling, such as academic counseling or psychological counseling, to understand and solve potential psychological problems or problems.
7. Control your emotions
When parents face their children's problems, especially when their children talk back because they don't want to go to school, they must control their emotions, and remember not to be angry with their children, let alone scold them. Because violent means often have the opposite effect, it is easy to cause more serious damage to children's hearts.
8. Actively communicate with teachers
Children are not mature in all aspects of their minds, and sometimes they can't just listen to their words. Parents need to learn more comprehensive information through other channels. For children's school life, the teacher is the person who has the most comprehensive information. Therefore, when facing the problem that children do not want to go to school, parents need to actively communicate with teachers to get the most accurate information, identify the reasons, and best solve the problem.
It is important for parents to give their children enough support and encouragement to help them establish a positive learning attitude and self-discipline. But we should also respect children's choices and interest development, and let them manage their own learning process under appropriate autonomy.
