Puppy love is an inevitable phenomenon for adolescent children. Girls, in particular, will mature earlier than boys. However, if girls are found to have puppy love, parents should not use hard means to separate them, which will only make children more rebellious, or even make some aggressive behaviors. So how to educate girls about puppy love is the right way?
How to educate girls in puppy love is the right way
1. Respect and understanding
As there is a high voice against puppy love in the society, families often do not allow children to have normal heterosexual communication behavior in the early stage, resulting in some children's rebellious psychology. However, teachers in some schools are afraid that children's puppy love will lead to mistakes. They regard puppy love as a scourge and show fear of panic when dealing with male and female students. Parents should fully understand the characteristics of children in this period, and allow and encourage children to have normal exchanges with the opposite sex. Respect their privacy, do not open their letters or read their diaries privately. We should strengthen communication and understand their inner world in time. Always make friends with them and be a trustworthy friend of children.
2. Agree but disagree
Parents should first convey to their children the idea that it is normal for this age group to have a good opinion of the opposite sex, rather than going astray. But clearly point out to them that this age group should study hard, love should be put on the back burner, and parents should express their opposition.
3. Guide children to understand puppy love correctly
Once the child is open to the parents and communicates, this is a very good time. Parents must seize the opportunity to know the child's problems through calm communication, so that parents can talk in a friendly voice and talk about their own views. Parents can talk about puppy love, so as to create a healthy love concept for children, so that children can really recognize puppy love, so that children can establish a healthy love concept.
4. Don't beat or scold children
Don't beat or scold children because of their puppy love. It is wrong to beat people first, and then scold children will leave a very bad impression on children. What's more, adolescent children are in the early stage of forming their outlook on life and values. At this time, it is very important for parents to guide and lead by example correctly. The formation of a person's character is closely related to his parents and family environment. Even if his children fall in love with each other, he should also communicate in a relaxed way. Beating and scolding can not solve the problem, and sometimes it can backfire.
How to educate girls about puppy love is the right way. In short, parents should respect and understand their children, express their own views, guide their children to have a correct understanding of puppy love, and do not beat or scold their children. All these will help to educate girls who are in love.
