If your child is bored with school, parents must first communicate patiently with their children to understand why they are bored with school. It may be that there are some problems recently, and we must solve them in time. So, how to guide children's weariness of learning?
How to guide children who are tired of learning
Understand the reason
First of all, we should understand the reason why children have this idea, and see whether they are unhappy with their classmates, or can't keep up with their studies, or simply have too much homework, which makes children feel tired. Only when the reason why the child doesn't want to go to school is clear, can parents prescribe the right medicine to the case, properly enlighten the child, and re stimulate the child's interest in school. Of course, during this period, parents can take a leave of absence for their children, either one week or half a month, depending on the specific situation, so that the children can adjust their mood, and then buy some school supplies for the children before they return to school, such as the children's favorite school bags, so that the children can maintain a good attitude. Of course, when choosing a schoolbag, in addition to the appearance, the most important three aspects are shoulder belt, zipper and partition design. Only when these three points are reasonable, can it be considered a good schoolbag.
Don't beat or scold
It is forbidden for parents to start or criticize their children for nothing when their children say they don't want to go to school. It is important to know that parents will not only distance themselves from their children and make them lose their desire to communicate with their parents, but also arouse their rebellious psychology and make them more and more disgusted with school, So parents must first ensure that they have a good attitude when facing this situation.
Understanding children's pressure
Just like going to work, adults sometimes have the idea of not having to go to work. What's more, children are now learning heavily. So parents should understand children more. When talking with children, they should try to stand on an equal footing with children. Instead of pointing fingers at children, they should guide them correctly and tell them what the purpose of learning is, Learning is not for anyone, but for the children themselves to be more relaxed and excellent in the future.
Communicate with teachers
In addition, it is not enough to just listen to the children's one-sided words. Because the children may hide some things, parents may wish to communicate with the children's teachers to see if the children have encountered anything in school. Only by thoroughly opening the children's heart knot can the children rekindle their enthusiasm for learning.
Attention should be paid to the following aspects in guiding children's weariness of learning
(1) Let children experience the fun of learning: For example, for a child who has never completed homework, parents can adjust the difficulty of homework, let the child complete easy exercises first, so that the child can get a sense of achievement, gradually adjust the difficulty of homework, and build confidence in learning.
(2) Instructing children's learning methods: When tutoring children, do not replace them in learning, but teach them how to acquire knowledge, such as how to use reference books to help them learn, how to recite and remember learning points, etc.
⑶ Encourage children to make more friends: at ordinary times, we can invite children's class friends to play and learn together at home, promote learning interest and improve the fun of school.
⑷ Appropriate rewards: help children set up learning goals that can be reached after hard work, encourage children to complete the goals, actively adjust when encountering negative emotions, and give appropriate rewards after completing the goals.
Children who are tired of learning need to communicate more and talk about life and learning with them calmly. Of course, life and learning are linked together. Slowly understand why to learn and let them feel the fun of learning.