First of all, children should not blame, beat or scold their children for puppy love. At this time, children are very rebellious. If parents force their children to separate, the children may be counterproductive. Therefore, they should communicate with their children as friends. How to communicate with their daughter?
How to communicate with the daughter of puppy love
When children have puppy love, parents and teachers should also make a concrete analysis of the specific situation. One is that they simply appreciate each other and do not have too much contact with each other, nor affect their studies. In this case, parents and teachers should not make a mountain out of a molehill, as long as they take advantage of the situation and pay attention.
One is that both parties are obsessed with it and behave excessively, which not only affects each other's studies, but also affects the class atmosphere. This situation is very harmful. Parents and teachers should analyze the reasons and take measures. Teachers should talk to both parties separately.
Parents should also analyze the specific reasons. Is it the lack of care for children at home, which leads to a lack of love for children, especially the long-term lack of fatherly love, so that children can not feel the warmth of the family and have no emotional sustenance, or are children affected by similar classmates, playing too much mobile phones and being biased?
If it is the former, we must pay attention to family affection, from food, clothing, housing and transportation to psychological care, all aspects of which reflect the good intentions of parents for children, and can really enter the children's inner world, so that children are willing to speak to their parents, rather than rough and simple handling. If it is the latter, please cut off communication with similar students and manage mobile phones and other communication tools. It's a holiday now. When parents ask this question, it should be that the child is chatting with each other online through communication tools. Please supervise the communication tools and talk openly with the child.
Communicate like your best friend. Don't ask questions or question your children. Like a girl friend, you can fall in love with your child and learn a little about the child's situation unconsciously. Don't be antagonistic to children. This will only make her try to lie to you. Then you will find it more difficult to understand the child's situation.
Communicate with your child like a bosom friend, and guide her to speak to you from the bottom of her heart. This can not only help children when they need help, but also correct their love outlook in time.
Puppy love is a problem that all children will encounter, but some children put their ideas into practice, and some children did not put them into practice. So it is reasonable for their children to have puppy love. And children's puppy love can help children's sexual growth and avoid sexual problems.
In children's education, accompanying and helping children grow up is the basic responsibility of parents. And that kind of rough control will only lead to the deterioration of parent-child relationship. It may even lead to the growth of children into problem children. Therefore, in educating children, we should combine dredging with blocking. Don't control children.
