When a child's learning is poor, parents should not blindly look at the problem from their own perspective and take it for granted that the child is stupid. Instead, we should think more from the perspective of children. Only when we recognize the reasons for children's poor learning and find out the difficulties they encounter, can we find the right medicine for the situation and effectively improve their performance. So, what about children who are poor at learning?
How to deal with children's poor learning
1. Correct understanding of learning
As a parent, first of all, you should be calm, and don't always think that your children are unproductive. Instead, you should encourage them more at this time. We should also take a correct view of learning. After all, everyone has different talents and is good at different things. Some children are better at math and some children are poor in Chinese. Parents should find out what children are better at in time. For example, the children are good at drawing, but their English ability is poor. At this time, parents should tell the children that it's OK as long as they try their best.
2. Relieve children's learning pressure
First of all, parents should not always compare their children, but should lower their expectations of their children and not put too much pressure on them. Some children really lack the ability to accept knowledge. The same question can be understood by the more intelligent children after the teacher talks about it, while some children can't understand it even if the teacher talks about it three or four times. Parents should still communicate with children more to see what difficulties children encounter in learning, and also help them to view learning correctly, Don't put too much pressure on yourself.
3. Improve children's learning methods
Children's poor learning may also be caused by their improper learning methods. Parents should not only communicate more with their children to understand how their children learn, but also guide them to improve in a timely manner. For example, guide children to listen carefully in class, pay attention to preview before class, review in time after class, be good at summarizing, ask questions if they don't understand, and don't be ashamed to ask questions. Fundamentally improve children's learning methods, improve children's learning efficiency, and thus improve children's performance.
4. Communicate with children more
If the child's learning is poor, parents should first find out the reasons for the child's poor academic performance. This requires parents and children to communicate more and understand their inner thoughts. At the same time, don't force the child too much, let the child voluntarily tell the problems he has encountered. Parents should not always care about exam results, but tell their children that it is more important to grow up through mistakes. At the same time, more children should be trained to think independently and solve problems.
5. Communicate with children's teachers
It is also very important to communicate with teachers and understand the real situation of children in school. At the same time, parents should also observe more, and not believe what the teacher says. If the child is emotional about a teacher and has a bad relationship, it may also be an important reason for the child's poor learning. After full understanding, parents can also take the initiative to ask teachers for help to create a good environment for children and help them overcome difficulties.
What to do with children's poor learning? Parents should first respect their children's personality and not be too anxious to blame them. We should know that every child has its own advantages, and parents should not only be the parents of children, but also learn to be the Bole of children, to find the advantages of children, and let children learn from each other, so as to develop more comprehensively.