Some children are very rebellious. After they make mistakes, they are unwilling to admit their mistakes. When their parents scold them, they lock themselves in the room, unwilling to communicate with their parents and refuse their parents to approach them. What if the child is rebellious and locked in the room?
What to do if the child is rebellious and locked in the room
1. Communicate frequently with children
Talk to the child and persuade him to open the door. Parents and children should always communicate to understand their children's psychological changes and discover their abnormal behaviors in time. Parents should establish the idea of equality with their children and should not be condescending. If you can't move, I will support you. You have to listen to me. Children grow up in a family full of equality and respect. It is difficult for children to succeed.
2. Alleviate negative emotions
To prevent children from being too anxious and nervous is to let them show more positive emotions. When children have rebellious, anxious and irritable problems, they must communicate more and try to alleviate negative emotions. You can also take your children out to go shopping, chat with good friends, watch movies together, etc., to increase the intimacy with children through activities, and at the same time, it can divert children's attention.
3. Give children privacy
If a rebellious child locks the door, parents should not force the child to open the door, just let it be. What's more, when the child is grown up, parents should remember to knock on the door first when entering the child's room, because the child also has its own privacy. What's more, don't ask too much about the child's situation, and don't nag the child too much, Don't read your child's diary and other personal belongings.
The reason why the child is rebellious and locked in the room
1. I have trouble communicating with my parents, so I can't always talk to them together.
Many children will have some changes in their feelings with their parents in the process of growing up. This is because parents do not understand their children's world more and more. Every time a child chats with his parents, he ends up unhappy. After a long time, he doesn't like talking with his parents, which is a sign of separation. They avoid getting along with their parents by closing the door. Children with this mentality are generally prone to rebellious behavior.
2. They began to pay attention to protecting privacy and hoped that they would be respected.
When children grow up slowly, they will have a sense of protecting their privacy. They don't like their own things and are flipped by their parents at will. Children have this awareness at the age of seven, but many parents do not know how to respect their children, so they always use this way to lock the door to protect self-esteem.
3. You want to have your own space, so you can lock the door.
When we were young, we didn't know what privacy was, but with the change of age, we gradually became aware of privacy. At this time, we will have many secrets. Children need a space to protect their privacy, so they will lock the door when they go home.
What should children do when they rebel and lock themselves in the room? Parents should first understand the reason why children do so. If it is because they want to gain independent space, parents should respect their children's ideas and be pleased with their growth. If it is because they want to avoid mistakes, then parents should talk with their children, let them realize their mistakes and correct them.
