Now the society is developing very well, science and technology are also developing constantly, and the material conditions of children's life are much better than those of our parents' generation. In addition, many children are only children, and children are spoiled by their families. In this case, children tend to become ignorant. So, why are children especially ignorant?
What's the reason why children are so ignorant
1. Parents are used to imposing their dreams on their children, only dreaming of their youth, regardless of their children's feelings. When children have the ability to distinguish right from wrong and have their own dreams, at this time, parents and children will have conflicts.
2. Parents will never change their children's education, because this is the first time that parents have taught their children to imitate others. After reading it, they think they have learned it, and they begin to apply it to their children, with little change from small to large. However, as a child, it is OK to often beat and scold, but when children grow up, they have strong self-esteem and cannot scold at will. But the parents didn't have time to respond, so there was a contradiction.
3. Usually I am too lonely and want to make friends. I may not have friends at ordinary times, and my parents don't care about them enough. Sometimes children really want to talk to their parents or do something together, but they are ignored by busy parents.
How to guide children who don't understand
1. Emotion is more important than content
If parents beat and scold their children when they are disobedient, especially when they cry, it will only aggravate conflicts and destroy the parent-child relationship. When a child feels sad or depressed, parents can say: "I know how you feel..." Let the child vent first, and then let the child say the things that make him unhappy in a calm voice, so that he can calm down.
2. Take children to social activities
Most importantly, children can learn and practice more social etiquette in social activities. In daily life, parents should also teach their children more polite expressions. They should know where the boundaries between people are, and be able to read and take proper care of others' emotions, which is the basic element of high-quality social activities.
3. Harmonious family
Whether the atmosphere and environment are harmonious will also affect the establishment of children's sense of security. In many families, the mother, as the main force, needs to cooperate with the father and get along with the elders. If the concept of child rearing and living habits are very different, all kinds of contradictions and conflicts will put everyone under pressure, especially children.
We all want to change each other, but we don't know that everyone is stubborn. Instead of unilateral persuasion, two-way communication should be conducted on the premise of respect. I believe that a positive attitude and the right approach will enable us to get along better with our families.
In a word, the reason why children are so ignorant is that their parents' teaching methods are faulty. Parents should try their best to communicate with their children, or further care about them, guide them slowly, and form good habits! What should children do if they don't understand? As parents, don't always talk about children. This is a blow to children. The effect is not good. Considering that we adults are also willing to listen to good words, children's education is mainly based on encouragement, communication and communication.
