Personal suggestions are not allowed. Because violence can't solve the problem, it will only aggravate children's rebellious psychology, make things more difficult to control, and even affect the parent-child relationship in serious cases. Therefore, as parents, when it comes to children's homework, we must take appropriate methods, actively guide them, and avoid using extreme methods to increase their rebellious psychology.
What should children do if they don't do their homework well
1. Parents should learn to lead by example
For young children, they are vulnerable to external interference, especially the direct influence of parents. For many parents, they can also spend a certain amount of time with their children, but they may not be fully involved in the process of accompanying their children. They often talk about accompanying their children, still play with their mobile phones, and brush the boring circle of friends.
In this way, it is easy to cause children to be distracted. When children see their parents' behavior, their mind will also fluctuate, and they will have deviations in their actions. They cannot strictly regulate their own behavior according to the high requirements of their parents. Therefore, it is suggested that parents should be able to pick up books to read, read some high-quality books, and set a good example for children in their own behavior.
2. Avoid external factors that may interfere with children
For children, not only the parents sitting beside them will become a kind of interference factor. In fact, when children need to concentrate on homework and review knowledge, the whole family needs to maintain a relatively quiet environment. For example, when children are studying, they should not turn on the TV in the living room at home, although at this time, children will study in their own cabins, which will also cause their learning mood to be unstable. More importantly, it is not allowed to play light music while children are studying in order to relieve their nervousness, because children are more vulnerable to external interference than adults.
Suggestion: It is not suitable to leave books, stationery and other interesting products such as toys on the children's desks, so as not to disturb the children's attention.
3. Encourage children in time
When children show progress, we must not forget to encourage them in time. It can even be reversed. Let the children supervise what they need to improve, let the children "turn the other cheek", and have more desire for positive change. For example, when your child is doing homework, you can't help nagging, and you also like to stare at his mistakes and ask him to correct them immediately. Then you can let your child remind you when you have these performances, and ensure that you can do it, and use action to let the child feel your change. It can also be regarded as mutual supervision and progress together.
If children don't do their homework well, can they play? No, as long as children don't do things that touch the parents' principles, they are not recommended to use violence. Parents can refer to the above methods to guide children in their daily life.
