The children who are in the third year of senior high school must study very hard, especially when they are facing the important event of college entrance examination. Don't neglect the time. During this period of senior high school, children may not spend all their time on study, let alone play with mobile phones? It's OK to play with mobile phones. After all, it's the Internet age, and children can't be required to study all the time. It should be a combination of work and rest. The key is that parents must let children have self-control and play with mobile phones. What if the child refuses to hand in his mobile phone when he is a senior?
What to do if the child refuses to hand in his mobile phone when he is a senior
1. Never take a coercive approach
Because this can only worsen the relationship between you and the child, you must respect the child's choice and refuse to hand in the mobile phone. You must trust the child to manage the mobile phone by himself. If you can't, let the child hand in the mobile phone, make a good agreement with the child in this regard, fully trust the child, trust the child, and when he can't do it himself, he will feel embarrassed, Will take the initiative to hand in the phone.
2. Don't be rough with children
Parents should patiently dissuade their children from playing with mobile phones because they are high school students and know everything about the dangers of mobile phones. Especially, in the mobile phone era, it is a bit impossible to completely eliminate the use of mobile phones by their sons. As long as they tell their children when to play and when not to play, it is the absolute principle to control the time.
3. Communicate well with children
Bend down, calm down and have a long communication with the children. Talk about your experience and role models around you. Understand why children play mobile phones? Mobile phones are more attractive than things in life and study; I have no goal or direction; There is no motivation to learn, and so on. If you talk with your children for two minutes, they will collapse. You can find his closest friends, relatives, classmates, and even teachers who are willing to communicate with him. They can work together to guide the children.
4. First, let go of parents' anxiety
Because this anxiety will only make you deal with problems emotionally, criticize him, urge him again and again, scold him, and throw his mobile phone, which will make the situation worse and worse. He will resist, confront you, or give up on the surface, but you don't know what he wants to do behind his back. To solve children's problems, the most fundamental need is that you first repair the parent-child relationship. With a good parent-child relationship, there is a solid foundation for solving problems. But many parents can't see this, or have no patience to do it at all. They just focus on the problem and want to solve it immediately, which will only backfire.
What if the child refuses to hand in his mobile phone when he is a senior? The above is my advice to all parents. I hope you can find it useful. Educating children is a big thing, and parents must not relax.
