As the saying goes, "people are more popular than others." But many people are "not afraid of death". Girls are prone to vanity. No matter whether it is a holiday family dinner or a classmate gathering, it is fashionable to compare, such as clothing, figure, career and boyfriend. However, many girls can automatically shield the evil trend of comparison. So, what
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Can girls break the beaten track and resist the trend of competition? First place: Scorpio female
Reason for calm: why seek recognition from other people's standards? Sister herself is the standard!
In terms of "calm", Scorpio girls are definitely among the best among the 12 star girls. Because of this
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People often have strong power in their hearts, which comes from the confidence and persistence in their souls. Specifically, they have a set of value standards in mind to judge the external things, and they also know how to achieve their goals and get what they want (or people). So whenever Scorpio women feel confused, the first thing they will do is to look inside themselves to find the answer, rather than look around to see how others are doing. As for the common vanity of women, Scorpio women certainly can not be exempt from vulgarity. But they are very clear about what is behind the desire brought by vanity. Therefore, although they also have vanity attacks, they can also easily recognize how unwise their own "symptoms" are. Therefore, they will never compare with others under the drive of vanity, and then put various shackles on themselves. Scorpio women know that vanity is just a disease. Give it some time to recover naturally, or completely isolate it from the "source of infection" for a period of time, and it will heal itself without medicine!
Second place: Aries Female
Reason for calm: As long as you are happy, you must be consistent with others. Are you tired?
Aries girls are also very powerful models in their inner world, but unlike Scorpio girls, their "power" is more due to the intentional or unintentional neglect of external information (especially information they are not interested in) - no one is born with the capital of "being happy anytime, anywhere", which seems to be a naturally optimistic Aries girl, In fact, I just know when to "close" my ears and when to "forget" some unpleasant information. This kind of attitude towards life is really useful in this age when comparisons are unavoidable everywhere!
When others love to compare, let them compare. The sense of superiority and satisfaction generated by comparison and show off is not worth a penny for Aries women who can keep cheerful at any time because of "contentment". Therefore, compared with those girls who see others using brand-name bags to start even if they are frugal for a few months, and see other people's boyfriends know how to send flowers and gifts to their girlfriends on New Year's Day, and then go home and quarrel with their boyfriends, Aries girls who are generous, straightforward, and never use other people's standards to embarrass themselves (and people around them) are definitely the cutest girls!
Third place: virgin
Reason for calmness: My world is self-contained, and I don't want to be understood. I'm not interested in others' evaluation.
It can be said that Virgo girls' disregard for the outside world is similar to that of Aries girls, but for different reasons. They are more because they really "don't care", rather than the Aries woman's disregard for "purification" through "filtering". Every virgin has a vast kingdom in her heart, and they are the queen there. In this kingdom, virgins can get almost all the motivation and support at the spiritual level. When they encounter problems, they are also used to retreat back to their own small kingdom to seek answers.
Most virgins are proud of this pure land in their spiritual field. Because of this pride, they can ignore (sometimes even despise) the common values of others when they compare. It is undeniable that this kind of behavior, seen by others as deliberately posing high, sometimes affects the interpersonal relationship of virgins. But virgins don't care about themselves. They just want peace of mind in everything. What better way can bring real peace to a heart than the peace after completely getting rid of comparison, show off, jealousy and vanity?
Fourth place: Aquarius woman
Reason for calm: rational comparison and common progress. Everything that is divorced from rationality is undesirable.
If virgins are proud of their spiritual wealth, Aquarius girls are proud of their "rationality" when dealing with any problem. Aquarius women can clearly see the phenomenon of comparison everywhere around them.
But unlike other star girls, Aquarius girls can fully understand this behavior. They believe that comparison is the innate instinct of human beings, and the emotional reaction of the superior to the inferior to the inferior after comparison, as well as the impulse of the latter to "catch up" because they are inferior in some way, can actually be used as a driving force to promote individual progress and group development if it is controlled within a reasonable range. So Aquarius women will not hide their words, nor will they reject the so-called "comparison". When this emotion can be faced squarely, it is not so difficult to treat it rationally. Therefore, Aquarius women can completely achieve "comparison" rather than "climbing" - choose the goal that is necessary to "compare" and compare within a reasonable range. If the gap is really huge, then choose a reasonable way to fill the gap!
Fifth place: Cancer Female
Reason for calm: I know what is the most important for me, so I don't need to take others as a reference.
In many people's eyes, Cancer Woman is the type of extreme sensibility, which can be said to form a sharp contrast with the rational Aquarius Woman. However, it is unexpected that such an emotional Cancer woman is also a group with strong resistance to "comparison"! The reason for this is that Cancer Women's powerful sensibility often returns to the sea, and can converge to a certain (or some) specific goal. Such as family members, lovers, friends, etc. For Cancer women who value love and righteousness, material wealth is not unimportant, but compared with those people and things they attach more importance to and are maintained by "love", material needs will be immediately thrown out of several streets. If you have money to buy famous brand cosmetics, it's better to buy a pair of gold earrings for Mom; Instead of shopping for clothes, it's better to use that time to make a love lunch for your husband and children on the weekend!
From these examples, we can easily find that what Cancer Women really care about is not something that can be measured by the value of money. Therefore, they are always indifferent to the goals of others. Of course, I will listen and chat with you. But after listening and laughing, the Cancer woman will still return to her warm little harbor and live a happy and self-sufficient life.
