There are many reasons why children are introverted and dare not speak, but most of them are related to the parents' wrong education methods. Some children are too spoiled and protected by their parents, so they lose the opportunity to communicate with the outside world, so they become introverted and dare not speak. Some children are too strict by their parents, so they are afraid of saying the wrong thing, so they dare not speak. So how can children improve their introversion?
How can children improve if they are introverted and dare not speak
1. Communicate more with children
Introverted children may be psychologically vulnerable and afraid of making mistakes. People do not like themselves, so they dare not express themselves or speak out their ideas, afraid of making mistakes. Therefore, as a parent, we should communicate more with our children, encourage them to communicate more, and gradually the children will change. Only when we understand the child's true thoughts can we "suit the remedy to the case" and make the child become cheerful.
2. Bring more children to the outside world
Many children are too introverted because they are too lonely and lack communication with the outside world. Therefore, to change this state, parents should let their children try to communicate more with the outside world. Frequently bringing children into contact with new things in the outside world can help them form the habit of actively communicating with others subconsciously. When they form this habit, they will actively communicate with others when they put them in a strange environment.
3. Spend more time with children
Companion is the longest confession. Children's sense of security is gained from their parents. No matter how busy their parents are, they must spend more time with their children. You can take your children out to play on weekends, or accompany them to participate in some parent-child activities, so that they can feel the love from their parents, and then they will be more confident to open themselves.
The reason why children are introverted and dare not speak
1. Family education is too strict, and children have strong sense of oppression
Children are the hope and future of parents. Every parent hopes that their children will become Jackie Chan and Jackie Chan, and become the pride of their own hearts. Therefore, in normal family education, it is inevitable that they will not master the standard and be too strict with their children. In normal life, children are also strictly required to have habits in all aspects. If they do wrong or do not do well enough, they will be criticized or even scolded. Being strict is love, but being too strict will cause great pressure on children. Once they can't bear it, it will certainly hurt children and make them timid and introverted.
2. The parents are introverted and the family atmosphere is dull
Parents like to be quiet, introverted and silent. The child's language expression ability will also be weak, the character is dull, introverted, and does not like to talk. Parents are the role models and imitations of children. As parents are, children follow suit.
3. Overprotection of parents
Parents sometimes over protect their children. When their children grow up, they take all the responsibility. They don't give or seldom give them the opportunity to contact the society for fear that they will be hurt. After a long time, children will become psychologically dependent. When facing new friends and new environment, they are unwilling to change the status quo and trapped in the "protection cage" given by their parents, Become introverted over time.
How can children's introversion be improved? In order to improve the problem of children's introversion, parents should first do three things: first, communicate more with children, second, bring children into contact with the outside world, and third, spend more time with children.