We all know that parents are the first teachers of children, which is very important to the development of children's life. Therefore, the communication between parents and children is crucial. In fact, in the world of children, it is simple, and there are not so many concerns and judgments. For children who scold their parents, first of all, parents should review their attitude towards their children and the attitude of their husband and wife's relatives and friends. Don't unintentionally give children any bad examples. Despite the fact that children are good at educating you, they really lack judgment. Let's see how to discipline children who scold their parents.
How to discipline children who scold their parents
1. First of all, why do children scold their parents? As parents, have we considered it? Is it because we have bad habits? When you ask your children to be polite, do you take the lead? Do you like to be rude and lazy? This will have a subtle impact on children. Children will gradually learn from their parents' bad examples.
2. Secondly, as parents, we should pay attention to the care and concern for children at ordinary times to understand the real needs of children's hearts. We should listen to the children's ideas rather than blindly asking them to arrange children to limit their attempts and innovations. During the rebellious period, children tend to be eager to realize themselves. If they can't be understood, they are likely to have rebellious psychology. It is easy for them to resist and achieve their goals. This is actually the reason why children want to be noticed by parents.
3. Moreover, don't blindly tolerate the excessive tolerance of children's behavior, and quickly become arrogant and selfish. They will think that his needs and needs will be met unconditionally by his parents. If they are not satisfied, they will only take extreme actions. On the one hand, parents will lose authority and speak without weight in front of their children; on the other hand, they will increase their children's rebellious psychology.
The reason why children scold their parents
1. Be troubled by emotions
When many parents educate their children, they vent their emotions by punishing their children, trying to let them understand themselves through their own punishment behavior. Such practices will only cause children to resist, and then choose to swear to express their emotions.
2. Label children
When parents are using the concept of "bear child" to recognize this 10-year-old boy and think that he will definitely deteriorate, then all the behaviors of the injured boy may develop in a more "bear" direction in order to escape pain.
3. Overindulgence
Parents overindulge their children. When the child does not get this kind of indulgence on that day, the child will have a bad mood, which will only arouse stronger resistance, and thus curse others.
As for the problem of how to discipline children who scold their parents, parents should know that children in the growing process need to be encouraged and helped most, and parents need to set a good example themselves, so that children can learn from it. On the one hand, they can form good habits and not be too severe as parents. When children don't get it one day, they will have a bad mood, which will only arouse stronger resistance, thus swearing.
