Some parents reported that their children always procrastinate when doing their homework. They say whatever they want to do, beat and scold, but it doesn't work. They are finally willing to do their homework. They want to drink water when they are thirsty and go to the toilet when they are thirsty. In short, they are procrastinating and don't want to do their homework well. Faced with this situation, parents really don't know what to do. Here's a detailed introduction to how to deal with boys' tardiness in doing homework?
What should a boy do when he is tardy in doing his homework
1. Parents cannot create interference for children
Many parents ask their children to do homework. Although they are staring at them, they are playing with their mobile phones or chasing dramas, which is called accompanying their children. In fact, it is creating interference for children, making it difficult for them to do homework wholeheartedly. So when children are procrastinating in doing homework, parents should first reflect to see if they have created a good learning atmosphere for their children? If parents are playing with mobile phones, why should they ask their children to do their homework well? Therefore, when children do homework, parents either study together to set a good example for children; Either parents should do their own things and set a time for children to finish their homework. If children finish their homework on time, they will be given certain verbal or material rewards to strengthen their children's positive behavior. After a long time, children will consciously and actively write their homework.
2. Pay attention to the words when criticizing children
Many parents will say why you are so inky when their children are procrastinating? Do you see how efficient their children are in doing homework? Look at your handwriting. It's too ugly. The always oppressive education is easy to make children feel inferior and resistant. They feel that they will be criticized once they do homework, and then the children will definitely not do homework. Therefore, we should give more positive education to children and not always suppress them.
3. Pay for procrastination
If a child is particularly tardy in doing his homework, parents should not rush or urge him all the time. Instead, they can remind him to "go to bed at 9 p.m. and don't hand it in tomorrow if he can't finish writing". If he is still tardy, let him go. Parents just want their children to experience the consequences of failing to hand in homework. After being criticized by the teacher, children will realize the harm caused by procrastination, and will naturally speed up their own speed after several times.
Reasons for the boy's tardiness in doing homework
1. Not interested in learning
Some children can't do their homework because of their poor learning foundation, so they naturally slow down in doing homework. There are also children who have no fun in learning and don't want to do it even if they can. If your child belongs to this type, the problem to be solved is how to make up for the child's defects and how to make the child feel the fun of learning.
2. Children's attention is not enough
Some children procrastinate when doing homework, and lack of concentration is one of the important reasons. Many children will be distracted by other things when they are doing homework, unable to focus all their minds on solving homework. When parents find their children looking left and right, scratching their heads, staring blankly, etc. in front of their desks, it is usually because their children are not paying attention.
3. Children's time concept is not strong
Some children have no idea of time when they are doing their homework. They think that they can only finish their homework by themselves, and they don't care how much time they spend. It is said that "every inch of time is worth an inch of money, and every inch of money can't buy an inch of time". If children don't pay attention to the importance of time and procrastinate on their homework, it will have a great negative impact on their future study and life.
What should boys do when they are tardy in doing homework? When children start to learn, parents should create an atmosphere suitable for children's learning and fully mobilize children's enthusiasm for learning. However, they should criticize children more and encourage children more. They believe that children will become active and serious when they do homework.