With the development of society and the progress of science and technology, all kinds of electronic devices have been integrated into our daily life, especially mobile phones. Except for very young children, almost everyone will have one, but everything is good and everything is bad. With the impact of the environment, many children become addicted to mobile phones, resulting in worse and worse results. So, how to let children use mobile phones correctly?
How to let children use mobile phones correctly
1. Acceptance
Children play games online for a while, in fact, it is the same as adults' brushing videos and watching news. This is also a way for them to spend their leisure time. Without affecting their learning, first of all, they should trust their children to arrange their own time for learning and mobile entertainment. Instead of seeing their children play mobile phones, they would turn against each other. It is better to give them some initiative, This is helpful for him to learn time management.
2. Principled constraints
Agree with children in advance which apps can be used and which apps are not allowed to appear on the phone; It is better not to use it for more than half an hour every day, and turn off the machine regularly; Most importantly, mobile phones are not allowed to be taken to school; At the same time, parents should set a good example for their children, restrain their children, and reduce the time they spend on mobile phones.
3. Guide children to read more books to divert their attention
We can often take our children to bookstores and libraries, or buy some books that children may like at home if we want to, so that when we control children's mobile phones, we can also provide them with a world of books. Without mobile phones, children may hold up books. I tried it and it was a good method.
4. Control the use time of mobile phones and give reasonable rewards and punishments
For teenagers whose self-control awareness, management habits and thinking ability have not yet formed in the online world, parents need to restrict and guide their online behavior by establishing "rules" with their children. No rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules, no rules. Only by setting the length of playing with mobile phones and setting a reasonable reward and punishment mechanism can children develop good Internet habits.
5. Provide more company and promote parent-child relationship
Communication and companionship between parents and children are very important. More interactive learning with children can make them feel happy with their parents and establish a good parent-child relationship, which can promote communication between parents and children, so that parents can better protect their children's online safety.
6. Task based quantification
What is task-based quantification? It is to show the children's performance in a week in the form of scores. For those who have completed many tasks with good quality, scores should be added, and for those who have performed poorly, scores should be deducted. After a week, for example, from this Saturday morning to the next Friday night, the score is directly linked to the time when the phone can be used on weekends. Through task-based quantification, children's time of using mobile phones was controlled, and children's learning progress and self-improvement were also promoted.
As for the tasks, parents can flexibly grasp them, such as outstanding exam results, learning a piece of music, etc. Of course, in addition to weekends, we should also set aside time for children to use mobile phones on weekdays.
How to let children use mobile phones correctly, parents must clarify their interests, formulate rules, adhere to their own bottom line, and give them reasonable guidance.