We all know what characteristics and behaviors introverted children have, so as parents, they hope their children can become cheerful and confident, so that they will become much more smooth in the future interpersonal communication process. But if you want to improve the child's character, you need to find out the reason first, and then you can suit the remedy to the case. So, what are the reasons for children's introversion?
What causes children's introversion
1. The children did a good job and didn't encourage them in time
Some children are very good at doing something. For example, when children play manual games, they can do it so well for the first time. It's very powerful. When he feels good about himself, his parents didn't give encouragement and praise in time, but said coldly. That's what happened. You are still arrogant and complacent, and you still have a lot of room for progress. If you say that to your child, his self-confidence is very depressed. When he encounters such things, he becomes very unsure, I feel that I can't do well, so it is the most important for parents to encourage and praise their children in a timely manner. It is very important for you to build self-confidence for your children in order to dispel their sense of self-confidence.
2. Often scold children
Childhood is an important period for children to acquire a sense of security. A large part of children's sense of security comes from their parents' companionship and encouragement. If parents often yell at children, children will be in a tense and repressive atmosphere for a long time, which will lead to a lack of security. The direct consequence of insufficient sense of security is that children are sensitive, inferiority, and resistant to social interaction with others. The first reaction when encountering beautiful things is that they are not worthy.
3. Lack of parental companionship
If the child is in a family environment without care and care for a long time, and the parents are often busy with work and do not know how to accompany the child, the child will have a lack of security and may be introverted. If you want a cheerful and lively child, you need to adjust the family relationship, so that the child can have a confident character, and the parent-child relationship with parents will be better and better.
4. Too little contact with the outside world
Communication is an important course that people must take when they grow up. Once they are disconnected, they will be unable to move forward. However, many parents do not attach importance to the cultivation of this aspect. In order to take good care of their children, they have nurtured their children into "homestay" babies, and seldom go out to play with other children. Of course, it is easy for children to become timid and introverted. Parents should work hard to exercise their children's communication skills, take their children out to play, encourage them to make friends with other children, play games together, learn to share and express, and let their children grow up healthily in all aspects of body and mind.
What causes children's introversion? In addition to the above reasons, there are genetic factors, too strict parental education, excessive parental protection, family disharmony, and so on.