It is very important to go to your girlfriend's home for the first time. You must leave a good impression on her elders so that she can trust you with her daughter.
Don't go to each other's home empty handed. It's no wonder that many people give gifts. It's very important for Chinese people to give gifts when they meet, especially when they meet the elders, and also when they meet the parents of the girls they like, they can't go there empty handed and buy some gifts to take with them. The important thing is not how expensive the gift is, but the intention, which represents the importance you attach to this meeting.
When meeting the parents of the other party for the first time, you must pay attention to your clothes. Don't dress too casually as usual. You don't have to wear suits and shoes, but you must be clean and decent. If you are not an artist or the parents of the other party are not very receptive, you should not dress up in a fashionable fashion. It is better to be ordinary.
When meeting, you must show that you will bring happiness to your girlfriend, and you must let the other's parents feel the determination that led to you.
You will be nervous when you meet your parents for the first time. In fact, if you are a little nervous when you have time, your parents will think you are honest. Don't talk too much. What you should say must be generous. Don't make people think glib and unreliable.
If your drinking capacity is not good, you should try to drink less when you eat to avoid bad things after drinking.
In fact, parents are not afraid. What they value most is whether you are good to their daughter. As long as you are good to their daughter, others are secondary.