Because the children are still young, they do not know what benefits will be brought by learning. They can only see it in front of their eyes, and think that learning is a very hard thing, so they will have the idea of not going to school. In the face of this, parents must remember to beat and scold, but show their attitude to their children and ask them why they don't want to go to school, so as to suit the remedy to the case. So what if children don't want to go to school?
What to do if children don't want to go to school
1. Observe carefully to understand the children's true thoughts
Due to differences in environment, personality, gender and other aspects, each child may make different responses to the same problem. For all this, on the one hand, parents should monitor the changes in their children's hearts according to their emotional changes and behavior; On the other hand, it is necessary to open the window of the child's mind through activities such as heart to heart talk, so that the child is willing to tell you the truth. Then, according to the actual situation of the child, the right medicine.
2. Parents should try to understand and accept children who "don't want to go to school"
We should not blindly criticize children, but consider the problem that children do not want to go to school from the perspective of children. Try to understand and accept children's emotions, which will be more conducive to children's rational thinking about whether to go to school. When the child expresses the idea that he does not want to go to school, it shows that the child has unpleasant feelings about school. At this time, we should not tell our children how good the school is. It is useless to say it, because the children are in a bad mood and can't listen to what we say.
We can try to empathize with children. The mother can say to the child: "You don't like going to school, which makes you feel unhappy, don't you? The mother understands you very much!" When the child calms down, she is willing to talk to you. We should listen to the child's ideas patiently, and communicate with the child's parents effectively. If children feel that they are under great pressure to go to school recently, let them relax at weekends, listen to music, play games, go out to contact nature, or take exercise to help children work and rest.
3. Help adjust children's learning methods
If you find that your child's academic performance is not improving or declining, you should help find the root of the problem through your own analysis and consulting the child's teacher in a timely manner, and then help the child to adjust the learning methods. In a word, to solve the problem of "how to deal with children who don't love learning.
4. Let children learn to interact with others
Parents can take their children to visit friends' homes, or let other children come to play at home, so that their children can gain friendship with others. When children see other children go to school, they will also want to go to school.
What should children do if they don't want to go to school? If parents really find a solution, they can try to communicate with teachers, find a solution from teachers, and cooperate with home and school to solve this problem.
