In today's society, only child families are gradually increasing, but only child children often have a bad attitude towards their parents, which makes parents feel very distressed. So, what if the child doesn't respect his mother?
What to do if the child doesn't respect his mother
1. Create a family environment of equality and mutual love
A harmonious family atmosphere will enable children to feel the love from their parents when they are young, as well as the love between their parents. This will enable children to know that their parents also need the care of others, so as to help children develop from learning to care for their parents to care for others. Family members must respect each other. First of all, it is important for children to feel that their parents are equal. The consistency of parents' views and methods on children's education is the key to the success of education. Harmony can be consistent, and consistency can be successful. If parents disagree, it will lead to children's speculative psychology.
2. Respect children and treat them equally
Parents should realize that each child is an independent individual, not an accessory of others. No matter how young the children are, they need to be respected by others, and respect their personality, ideas and privacy. Parents should not impose their wishes on their children. Communicating with children is like communicating with friends, so children will treat their parents with the same attitude, communicate equally, reduce scolding, and help improve parent-child relationship.
3. Be a good model for children
Parents are role models for children to learn. If they can do good guidance and demonstration, they believe that children will learn better. If the elders, teachers and students want to say hello, do not quarrel loudly in public places, and take "please, thank you, and excuse me" as an important element in the dialogue with others.
Reasons for children's disrespect for their mothers
1. Be too strict with children, and take care of everything
In the process of educating children, most Chinese parents hold a "management" attitude, believing that it is their bounden duty for parents who have children to discipline their children. Guided by this idea, the family education is to take care of many things for children from small to big. It is this kind of education that is not allowed to let go that has made Chinese parents pay a bitter fruit of not being respected by their children.
2. Treat children as their own ideal and continuity
Many parents regard the success of their children as their own ideal in life, and therefore demand everything from their children. Because when I was young, I always wanted my children to help me realize my ideals and unsatisfied things, so I forgot that the child is another complete individual, not a substitute for who can realize his ideals. In fact, as long as you really respect your children, they will really respect you.
3. The influence of parents' doting
Nowadays, children become the core of many families. Family members devote all their love to children and respond to their needs. Gradually, children will think that their family should be good to them, resulting in arrogance, no gratitude and cherish their family's love, and no respect for elders.
What should children do if they don't respect their mothers? If they want their children to change this behavior, mothers should first respect their children's opinions rather than impose their own ideas on their children. Children also need to be respected. The communication between parents and children should be placed in an equal angle rather than a condescending attitude. A mother who can make friends with her child will not disrespect her mother.
