The children in grade one are relatively young and do not know how to express their ideas. When they get along with other children, they will use violence instead of their own language. So parents should not worry too much, but should first understand the cause and effect of the matter, and then make a decision. So, how do parents deal with the fight among the first grade children?
How do parents deal with children fighting in grade one
1. Don't intervene easily, let the conflict between children rise to adults
As long as it is not serious, the children's petty trifles can also help to enhance the feelings between children. However, some parents see that their children do not have an advantage, so they have to "beg for an explanation" from the parents of the other side, thinking that they can regain face in this way. In fact, it is unnecessary. Angry because of small frictions between children, and even fight violently, this will not only appear to be petty, but also easily isolate their children, so that other children dare not play with their own children. If it's not serious, just treat it as if you haven't seen it, and the children will make up again after a while.
2. Don't magnify the damage to children
In many cases, children will inevitably suffer minor injuries when they play together. Sometimes the children themselves are not aware of it, but the parents will deliberately magnify the injuries on the children's bodies. Originally, they have only worn a little skin, but the parents are like children who have lost half their lives. This extreme protection of children will easily make children become delicate and can not stand hardships, which is very bad for cultivating children's independent character.
3. Help children improve interpersonal skills
In fact, when children have "fighting" behavior, it is the opportunity for parents to help children improve their interpersonal skills. After all, children still lack experience in communication with children, and their cognitive ability and self-control are also weak. For children, ensuring their current interests is the overriding goal. At this time, parents need to take it seriously. Parents should patiently explain to their children what they should do if they want to make friends with other children, what is wrong and what harm will be caused to others.
If it is caused by other children, if it is unintentional, parents should tell the children that the other party is not intentional, and there will be friction between friends, just as you may hurt others accidentally sometimes, so everyone should understand each other. If the other party is intentional, teach the child to protect himself. Be brave, and distinguish between right and wrong things with the other party by reason, not by fists. Under the guidance and encouragement of parents, children should slowly develop their courage to argue, and also let them understand that friends need to be humble and polite.
4. Accept and listen to their inner thoughts
In fact, no matter adults or children, everyone will face some conflicts in the process of communication. As parents, they hope they can help children solve them. However, we should know that everyone has his own limitations, which will inevitably be affected by his own emotions, and there will be deviations when dealing with problems. When facing the "fight" of children, we should not only accept our own limitations, but also accept the limitations and reactions of children. Parents need to listen attentively to and accept their children's true thoughts and understand their children's emotions.
How to deal with the fight among the first grade children? Children will always make small troubles together. As parents, they should not impose an adult world view on them, but should teach them how to deal with conflicts.
