Adolescent children will have rebellious mentality, which is very normal. We parents should not think that children are disobedient. You should give children the right to speak and communicate with children. Children like to do what they like. School is boring. In addition, there are many rules in school management. Children who want to be free will certainly not like it, What about the rebellious teenager who doesn't want to go to school?
What to do when children rebel at puberty and don't want to go to school
1. Keep children happy
As a parent, first of all, we should be tolerant and patient. We should make friends with him, communicate with him more, take him out for a walk, relax, do more aerobic exercises, do more things that are interesting to him, distract his attention, and keep him happy. If parents do not have a sense of empathy, that is, they do not understand their children, and they say such mandatory words as "why are you so disobedient and ignorant...", "I am all for your own good", and "what must you do", they will arouse a stronger sense of rebellion among children, and eventually both will lose.
2. Understand the reason and help children regain confidence
When children are rebellious in adolescence, they are likely to be tired of school. When children have the idea of not going to school, parents do not just beat and scold them, but calmly ask them why they do not want to go to school. There are reasons why children do not want to go to school. There are many reasons why children do not go to school. Therefore, first of all, we should find out why children do not go to school, This is the premise of solving the problem. Once this problem is solved, we can solve the problem of children in a targeted way. So on this issue, we should stick to the principle that one key opens one lock.
Parents should give positive energy to their children. What parents need to do is to care more about their children's learning, encourage them more, coach their children more, and help them regain their confidence in learning. Communicate more with teachers and classmates, learn about the children's school situation, communicate more with teachers, and help children out of the dilemma of weariness.
3. Listen more to the voice of children
The rebellious period of children is not their fault. At this age, children are not ignorant, but listen to a lot of parents. During the rebellious period, children express their love to children by saying less, acting more, and accompanying more. Adolescent children are not fully mature in all aspects, but they have a strong sense of independence in their hearts. Listen to children's voices more. Children are still young, and sometimes they may not express their own small requirements clearly. At this time, if adults do not have patience to listen, children will feel very depressed and unhappy. But if adults can learn to listen to children's needs, children will naturally listen to some demands and orders of adults.
How to deal with children who rebel at puberty and don't want to go to school? Parents should not be forced to follow their children, but should be more considerate and tolerant of their children, think about problems from their children's perspective, and solve problems for their children.