The children in high school have become very mature. Sometimes they are unwilling to listen to their parents' discipline, and feel that their ideas are right. They will fight against their parents, showing a rebellious side. Some children rebel to the night and don't pay attention to their parents at all. It is very headstrong. It is a serious problem that children don't return home at night, How to deal with the rebellious high school children who do not return home at night?
How to Deal with High School Children's Rebellion at Night
1. Communicate with children more
Adolescent children have this kind of performance, mainly because you have less communication, and you should communicate reasonably. When this happens, you are too used to him when he was young, and suddenly put forward something that does not meet his opinion, causing the child's mood to plummet. In the future, you should keep more communication with the child. If the child's opinion is reasonable and practical, you can agree, But we can't agree with children's excessive demands. We should establish the authority of parents and be a principled parent.
2. It is necessary to understand the reason why children do not stay at night, and then apply the right medicine to the case. There are several reasons why children do not stay at night:
1) The child made a mistake at school and was criticized by the teacher. He was afraid of being beaten and scolded by his parents when he went home. The child hid in his classmate's home and did not return home at night.
2) The children did not do well in the exam, and their parents were too demanding. They ran away from home for fear of being beaten and scolded by their parents.
3) The child invited three or five friends to have a picnic outside or celebrate his classmates' birthday. He was drunk and could not go home. He stayed at his classmates' home and did not stay at night.
4) Children are addicted to games and play in Internet cafes all night long.
5) Students have puppy love, they spend the night outside, etc.
In view of the above reasons, parents should appeal to emotion and reason, and never beat or scold children; Communicate more with teachers and children to solve their learning problems, find out the causes of their troubles, and encourage them to admit and correct their mistakes.
3. Calm down and guide children reasonably
The requirements for children should be moderate, allowing children to make mistakes, and guiding children to face mistakes correctly. Dilute the child's idea of leaving, do not show fear, do not scold and embarrass the child, let the child understand that leaving is foolish.
4. Home school cooperation, early detection and early intervention
Teenagers will experience a rebellious period when they grow up, so most of them are rebellious and can't understand their parents' intentions, especially in learning. In this period, it is easy to be unhappy with their parents, which requires parents to understand and tolerate children, help them to pass through adolescence smoothly, and some children are particularly interested in the opposite sex, If parents can't guide their children correctly, it may also lead to bad behavior, such as puppy love. Maybe parents think that the children are deliberately bad and do not work properly, and they will beat and scold the children. This is actually inappropriate. So parents should cooperate with teachers in time to find out early education and guide them correctly.
How to deal with high school children's rebellious night? Parents should not beat or scold their children, but let them realize that it is wrong to do so. They should communicate with their children as soon as possible, untie their worries as soon as possible, and help them get through this period smoothly.
