Every child will experience a period of rebellion, which is also avoidable. However, parents need to be more patient, guide and educate children correctly. Children are still young, often do things thoughtlessly, and the way will be a bit extreme. We parents should be able to understand children, and more tolerant of children. After all, children are not as mature as adults, We can't look at children's words and deeds from the perspective of adults. How can children in the rebellious period of 11 years old guide them?
How to guide 11 year old rebellious children
First, parents should never beat or scold their children, or still require their children to obey their parents' authority as before. Parents should consciously change their own education methods.
Second, parents must listen to their children's voices, communicate with their children, and make friends with their children. For example, when asking their children to do something, they should not use a kind of authoritative language, but ask whether it is OK or what you think. They should communicate with their children in such a deliberative manner.
Third, when communicating, we must choose the right time. When we chat together, we can communicate with children when the atmosphere is good.
Fourth, in the process of communication with children, we must set an example. For example, if children are required not to look at mobile phones, adults and parents must also not look at mobile phones. We should create an atmosphere of learning and reading together.
Fifth, first of all, be patient enough, refuse to use violence to educate children, and communicate with children more. Parents must listen to their children's voices more, and choose the right time when communicating with children. This is the right atmosphere, and children can easily accept their parents' teachings.
Sixth, examine your own behavior. Every time the child comes to us, you should be aware of your own behavior. Are you listening to the child carefully, perfunctory, and set an example of "disobedience" for the child?
I hope that from now on, you can seriously respond to every call from your child. Even if you are busy with cooking, you can turn off the fire first, and then squat down to see what the child is doing. If it takes a long time, you can make an appointment with the child to communicate, which is also a sign of respect for the child.
Reasons for 11 year old children's rebellion:
1. The reason why children rebel has something to do with parents' neglect and repressed emotions. For example, the life arranged by parents is not what children want at all, and most parents may not have too much time to take care of their children. Children are ignored by their families for a long time, which may also lead to children's rebellious mentality.
2. There are also some parents who are strong in themselves. No matter what needs the children have, they will also show obvious rebellious mentality in such cases, even according to their own ideas.
How to guide the 11 year old rebellious children? Parents should be more patient. For rebellious children, parents should be able to understand their children's inner needs in a timely manner, especially their emotional needs. Don't ignore the children, and pay more attention and respect to them.