Don't be busy to stop it first, and observe the children's learning condition for a week or two. Never be angry with them or even fight against them. You should stabilize your emotions. Guide children from the heart and let them gain self-confidence. Tell your child the advantages and disadvantages of puppy love, and let the child weigh them. So, what is the most effective way to deal with puppy love among junior three students?
The most effective way to deal with puppy love of junior three students
1. Understanding children
We should understand and understand children. From the perspective of children's emotions, let children express their emotions, either in words or by chatting with their parents. When this emotion is expressed, he will not be blocked in his heart and will not suffer.
2. Not extreme treatment
Many parents will cut off their children's love for the first time when they know that their children are in puppy love, but they do not know that this practice will lead to extreme behavior. Because puppy love is a very normal behavior, which needs to be corrected from our cognitive ability. It is like a pimple on our face, which will grow up at the right age. Most of these hazy feelings occur in the middle school period, when children will be particularly rebellious. Once parents adopt extreme ways to deal with his puppy love, it is easy for him to have extreme behavior.
3. Parents should let children know the disadvantages of puppy love
In fact, puppy love has many disadvantages, but children can't be well aware of it. So parents can start from the changes that have taken place in their children, such as the decline in academic performance, the inability to concentrate, and so on.
Let children really find that their overall situation is not as good as before, which will arouse a certain sense of crisis for children, and also make it easier for children to find the disadvantages of puppy love. If children find many bad things in puppy love, they will also think about it on their own initiative.
What are the manifestations of children's puppy love
1. Keep a private diary secretly
Many people have the habit of keeping a diary, but it is rare for students to keep a diary. Students themselves have a large amount of homework at school, and there are almost all homework for keeping a diary after school. Few students will keep a private diary. When children start to keep a private diary secretly, they should pay attention to it. It may be puppy love.
2. Start to pay attention to appearance
When parents find that children suddenly begin to attach importance to their appearance and make great changes to their appearance, they will spend a lot of time dressing up before going out, especially before going to school. At this time, children may fall in love with each other because they hope to leave a good image for each other.
3. Sudden increase in expenditure
If a child often patronizes the canteen at school and buys something that has nothing to do with school supplies, it is necessary to observe whether she is in love. Some parents will find that their children's pocket money is not enough. They will ask their parents for money from time to time for various reasons. At this time, they should pay more attention.
The most effective way to deal with puppy love for junior three students is to understand their children's feelings without criticizing, lecturing or nagging. Don't stick labels and buttons on children. There is no puppy love. It is just precocious, and early experience of hazy feelings between men and women.
