At the age of 12, which is the blooming age and the embryonic stage of adolescence, children begin to be curious about the opposite sex and have puppy love; As parents, it is the most important thing for children to recognize the dangers of puppy love and help them focus on learning; So, what about girls' puppy love at the age of twelve?
How to deal with girls' puppy love at the age of 12
1. More understanding and affirmation of adolescent children
Understanding children means being able to empathize with them from their perspective. Understand the communication between children and the opposite sex. They just like each other and like to talk with each other. There is no problem. When a child is understood by her parents, she will feel that she is accepted, so she will not alienate her parents.
2. Guide children to establish a correct view of love
If you don't understand your child's thoughts and directly label your child as puppy love, it is tantamount to pushing your child onto the road of love. This should be combined with questioning and listening. Mom can ask, "What do you like about him?" After listening to the child, she affirms the quality and advantages of the other party. "Oh, she likes the humor of the other party. Her daughter likes the humorous boy". "The other party is very handsome. The handsome man is very eye-catching." "He often helps you. He is a warm-hearted boy". In this way, the words "humorous, handsome, enthusiastic" have been set up in your child's future love outlook.
3. Encourage children to participate in more activities
Parents should encourage their children to actively participate in activities that are beneficial to their physical and mental health to help them shift their attention. Encourage children to develop their hobbies according to their personal interests. Because in recent years, with the general improvement of people's living standards, children's nutrition supply is sufficient, which makes the age of children's sexual maturity significantly earlier, so that the age of middle school students' love is now generally earlier. In this regard, our parents should be prepared to learn some knowledge about children's psychology, especially adolescence psychology and pedagogy, so as to improve their knowledge self-restraint. At ordinary times, we should pay more attention to the children and talk with them to prevent the occurrence of juvenile puppy love.
4. Set lofty ambitions and divert attention
As they grow older, they are faced with learning all kinds of new things. Their interests will become extremely wide. They hope to find out the reasons for many things. At this time, it is necessary to carry out motivational education, so that students can set lofty aspirations, stimulate their enterprising spirit, study hard, and save energy for their bright future. Through good educational means, students' enthusiasm for learning can be aroused, so that they can turn their attention to the fun of learning, so that students can find happiness in learning, form a correct outlook on life, and dilute their psychological tendency of puppy love.
5. Give children enough care
Parents should give their children enough care. Both parents are particularly important to their children. If the children have enough love, they will not go out to look for other people's care and private relationships.
The phenomenon of puppy love is a psychological and physiological problem composed of many factors. We should attach great importance to it, properly handle it, and help children get rid of puppy love in time. It enables the healthy development of children's physical and mental health, and makes children's physical and mental health education more energetic.