Some parents said that the child's character is too sensitive, easy to be emotional, difficult to adapt to changes in the outside world, and easily attracted by external influences, for example, lack of attention in class, getting along with peers, always worried about the establishment of interpersonal relationships, etc. What about the child's character sensitivity?
How to deal with children with sensitive personality
1. Parents can create more opportunities to get in touch with people of the same age, take their children to visit neighbors or friends' homes, cultivate their children's lively and cheerful personality, and also let them learn to communicate with others.
2. Encourage children to participate in more contests, experience winning and losing from childhood, and face the results bravely. In the process of competition, experience the fun of working together with partners, so that children can become stronger in the heart and will not shrink because of a little setback.
3. Children with sensitive hearts may be psychologically hurt, not confident, not strong enough, and always think they are not good enough. For example, when children grow up, they are often criticized and denied by their parents, elders and teachers. After a long time, children think that what parents and elders say is right, that is, they are not good enough. In addition, children are introverted and timid, and will be vulnerable. When someone says something, he will think that he is saying that he did something bad or that he did something wrong. Parents should change the way of education.
4. Encourage children to express their views in life. Parents should never interrupt or deny what children say, so that children can experience the feeling that their views are valued and know their importance in the family. They will become more confident and dare to express themselves. As parents, they should set an example for their children, create a good family atmosphere, talk amiably, not picky, and discuss things together.
5. Due to the children's problems, they will have difficulties in learning. Parents should be patient first. They can start from exercising the children's attention to improve their learning. Give children more confidence and encourage them when they make progress.
Reasons for children's sensitive personality
1. Parents protect children too much
Some children are highly concerned and protected by their parents when they are young. They are worried that the children will be hurt when they grow up, but the excessive protection of parents will bring more serious harm to the children, which will cause the children's personality to become too sensitive.
2. Improper parental education
The parents' "education method" determines the children's character tendency. Therefore, parents should teach their children in the right way. They should not spoil your children too much, nor should they be too strict with their children. Extreme education methods will cause their children's personality to become sensitive.
The child's sensitive personality may be caused by the parents' educational mistakes, or the child's personality is the same, or when the child has reached the stage of rebellion, parents may wish to consider these aspects more.