When children reach a certain age, they need to enter the campus to learn knowledge and improve themselves. Some children have a very strong resistance to school. They cry every time and don't want to go to school. No matter how their parents guide them, it doesn't work, but it makes the situation worse. So what should children who don't go to school do?
What should children who don't go to school do
1. First accept the child's current mood of not wanting to go to school
When children don't want to go to school, the reasons vary from person to person, such as difficulties they can't solve in learning, poor relationship with teachers or classmates, and lack of motivation in learning; But when children don't go to school, they must have experienced a period of struggle in their hearts. So what parents should do first is to accept their children's current emotions, let them relax and calm down first. Only when children feel relaxed, can they face problems with reason, talk and communicate with their parents reasonably, and be willing to tell the real reason why they don't want to go to school, so that parents can find appropriate solutions.
Most of the time, children don't want to go to school, but just talk or complain. If parents appear very nervous and anxious immediately after listening, they will make children nervous and anxious, which can only let children's instinct or subconscious work. There are usually only three instinctive reactions: one is to attack and fight with parents; The other is to freeze and be numb. He doesn't say anything, but his parents can't listen to anything; The third is to avoid interruptions; No matter which kind of reaction will help solve the problem.
2. Communicate patiently with children
After parents understand the reason why their children do not want to go to school, they should actively seek solutions to the problem. Of course, home school cooperation is an effective measure to help children change their minds. Therefore, parents should take the initiative to contact the head teacher, and it is best to communicate with the teacher face to face. On the one hand, we should tell the teacher that the child does not want to go to school at present, and tell the teacher why the child said, and ask the teacher to help verify; On the other hand, we should show our attitude to the teacher, ask the teacher to give advice, and we will actively cooperate with the teacher to educate and guide the children together. Of course, parents can also let children participate in the process of communication with teachers, let children listen to their teachers' comments and suggestions, and let children feel the love of parents for themselves, more actively face problems, solve problems, and rekindle the desire to go to school.
3. Teach children learning methods
The lack of efficient learning methods will lead to slow learning progress and low academic performance, which will naturally dampen children's enthusiasm for learning. The learning efficiency is not high because the knowledge is not firmly grasped. At this time, parents can help children find out the weak points of knowledge, and make up the weak points first to lay a good foundation for the next learning; At the same time, learn to summarize and summarize knowledge points, and learn systematically to make learning more efficient. When children's performance is not ideal, or when they encounter difficulties in learning, they should first solve the problems, and then learn from the overall framework to bits and pieces of knowledge to better lay the foundation for learning and improve their academic performance.
What should children who do not go to school do? Parents should also help children relieve the pressure of learning; Accompany them to study together; Give them proper encouragement and support, etc.
