Children are a reflection of parents. Children's character has a lot to do with their parents. If you want children to get rid of their bad temper, first analyze whether parents themselves are impulsive, irritable and irritable when dealing with things; The following is a detailed introduction to how to deal with the bad temper of the eight year old child?
What to do with an eight year old child with a bad temper
1. Patient guidance and education
When a child loses his temper, parents should not beat or scold him. After the child is calm, try to communicate with him, teach him that anger not only hurts himself, but also hurts others, make him realize that losing his temper is wrong, and teach him that when losing his temper, you can first think about why I lose my temper and what impact it will have.
2. Be a role model for children
Parents are the first teachers of children. Their parents are grumpy, and children will be affected. Therefore, parents must control their emotions, not lose their temper in front of children, and set a good example for children.
3. Parents should often communicate with their children
Communication is not limited to asking about learning, but to understanding children from the perspective of empathy. Parents should pay more attention to their children, ask them what problems they encounter in life or making friends, and give them some help, encouragement or comfort.
The reason why eight year old children are grumpy
1. Environmental impact
Parents' educational methods, interpersonal relationships, economic level, etc. will have a certain impact on children's own personality, making children become grumpy. In this regard, parents should pay more attention to and accompany their children, understand and comfort their children's emotions, and let children feel the love from parents and friends around them.
2. In the period of rebellion
When children have rebellious problems, they may be unstable and sensitive, and like to oppose their parents, resulting in a grumpy situation. At this time, parents should understand the psychological characteristics of rebellious children, so that children can gradually learn to solve problems by themselves, such as arranging learning activities and ensuring academic performance. Children should also be encouraged, supported and let go properly, so that they can learn to express themselves and talk calmly with their parents.
What should we do about an eight year old child who has a bad temper? The wrong expression of emotion will affect the way of thinking of the child in the future. It is also the root of school violence and domestic violence. It is very important to help children establish a correct expression of emotion in early childhood.