Recently, some netizens released news through the circle of friends that the 6-year-old girl was playing alone in a closed shopping mall children's park in Baiyun District of Guangzhou because her family had temporarily left. When her grandmother came back, she found that she was suspected of being injured Indecency 。
It is understood that some amusement facilities in the children's park of the shopping mall involved have been suspended, and the relevant staff responded that the man involved is a part-time staff of the children's park.
According to the report of Guangzhou Baiyun Police yesterday (23rd), at about 20:00 on the 21st, Baiyun Police received a call from the public saying that they were playing with their 6-year-old granddaughter in a shopping mall in Hejie, during which the granddaughter was molested by a man. After receiving the report, the police immediately rushed to the scene to carry out investigation, and the suspects involved in the case were Zhong (male, Cantonese) Capture. At present, the suspect Zhong has been detained by the police according to law, and the case is still under further investigation.
Site: Some facilities of the park involved are suspended
"Dear nannies and dads, no matter where you are, you should never let your children leave their eyes for too long." Recently, a friend circle news released by an online friend was popular among parents, which made many parents feel worried.
The content is roughly as follows: Netizens take their children to play in the children's park in the mall. When they are going home, they find a 5-year-old girl who has been crying and wants to find her family. The Paradise was closed, and it was suspected that the girl's family left temporarily. Later, the Paradise called the girl's grandmother to come. When Grandma arrived, The aggrieved girl cried even more, claiming to be bleeding, took off her underpants, and "said someone made it".
On the morning of March 22, the reporter from Nandu came to the shopping mall and children's park in Baiyun District, The amusement facilities under closed management of the park have been suspended A notice board was erected at the entrance, saying "In order to better serve new and old members and provide a better playing environment for everyone, XX Children's Growth Park will upgrade some of the playing equipment in Future City, and we will do our best to do a good job in safety and service".
RIZ-ZOAWD: The suspect is a part-time student
The open amusement facilities of the park are still in operation, and many parents are still attracted to take their children to play with dolls clamping machines, shooting machines, carousels, etc. They all said that they have not heard of the rumors about girls being molested, which is "unbelievable", Chen Bo with his granddaughter sighed that this kind of indoor amusement park has parents with children, staff on the scene, and monitors installed around. I don't know how this could happen again.
Another mother with a baby said that she had applied for a membership card here and was unwilling to continue to bring her baby to play after learning about this, so she considered applying to the merchant for a refund.
The staff of the park responded that the man involved was a part-time staff of the park , "The police have called the police, and I don't know what the situation is", and the relevant monitoring has been provided to the police. She revealed that the man was a student at school and had worked part-time in the park for a long time.
She said that according to the regulations of the park, when children play, "parents need to accompany them all the way". The grandmother took her granddaughter to the park to play. When she left the park halfway, she did not say to the staff, "She went to pick up her socks, and suddenly disappeared". Later, when she saw the girl crying, her colleagues called milk for help, and grandma came.
Experts say: Parental role play teaches children to deal with bad people
Doctor Clove, author Sex education for children Expert, member of the Youth Special Committee of the Chinese Sexuality Society Hu Jiawei Means“ Our parents must give their children sex education in a timely manner , especially before children go to kindergarten, they should master three basic things. "
The first step: establish children's awareness of body rights. Usually parents can tell their children, "Any physical contact you don't like, no matter who the other person is, you can refuse". Some adults like children and always express their love by hugging, kissing and touching. But in many cases, children do not like such physical contact. At this time, some parents often tell their children: "Uncle and aunt like you, so they kiss you. You should be good, obedient and sensible."
In fact, this is a great misleading for children. Such expression will reduce children's safety awareness Sexual aggression When acting, they may not know whether they should refuse or accept like obedient children.
Step 2: help children know the private parts. When parents bathe their children, they can tell them: "Now parents want to bathe you, so they will see your body. In ordinary life, our vests underpants The part covered is our private part, which will not be shown to others, nor touched by others. Such as our breasts, buttocks genitals 。” "When someone asks us to take off our clothes and touch our private parts, we must refuse and shout loudly. After that, we must tell our parents about it."
Step 3: Improve children's coping ability through role playing. Because children's understanding and coping ability are limited, parents can design some specific scenes with children through role playing games to improve children's coping ability.
For example, the father plays the uncle in the park, and proposes to give the child snacks to watch his underwear. The mother asks the child how to deal with it. When the child makes a rejection reaction, the parents must praise the child's reaction together. When a child makes a wrong response, parents teach the child specific scripts. For example, "Don't touch me, I will tell my parents!"
Hu Jiawei said that after studying many cases of child sexual assault reported by the news media, he found a very serious phenomenon, that is, "many children were found by their families after a long time of sexual assault, and many children suffered continuous injuries in the process."
He suggested that parents should be sensitive to sex and pay attention to the physical and behavioral abnormalities of their children. For example, the child's reproductive organs may be injured, bleeding or infected; For example, children's personalities become prone to temper tantrums and constantly attack others; For example, children become very resistant to certain people or places.
"In normal life, parents should not entrust their children to people they don't trust. When children play in the same room with other children, they should ask them not to lock the door. When children receive tutoring at home, they should install monitoring, etc."
