From birth to adulthood, I have nothing to do with being fat, but more often with being thin.
So someone told me that after graduation, they gradually gained weight, but in fact, they did not. Their weight has basically remained within ± 2.5kg since graduation;
Then it became. After getting married, they gradually gained weight, but they did not. They have been married for seven years and have never gained weight.
Because the weight has been relatively stable, I didn't understand some problems caused by weight gain. I found that many clothes of last year were not suitable until I changed clothes in summer recently.
Just this weekend, I took the time to try on all the clothes before, and then eliminated at least 1/3 of the clothes. It also eliminated some clothes objectively, which can be regarded as a kind of helpless parting.

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As I said before, I haven't updated my blog for a long time, probably because I have been too miserable or too happy.
This period of time is not too happy, but the overall life is stable+busy.

This year's 5.1 holiday, I returned to my hometown, my hometown that I haven't returned for 5 years. This may be the most worthy thing for me to record these days, but it has been stranded for various reasons.
The short vacation was spent among various relatives. I went to the small village where I grew up, followed my own path to study, and met my junior high school deskmate. Everything was far away and beautiful. When I left home, my sadness gradually faded with time. Until now, I never knew where to start when I returned home.

At this time, I suddenly realized that with the passage of time, my former home could only be in my dream or memory, and I gradually had my own home and family.
I became my father when I was a child, and I was making my child's warm home.

I have never felt the fragility and perishability of life. Since the recent death of my cousin, I have a new understanding of life.

He said he was a cousin, but actually he was the same age as me, only two months younger than me. He died at the age of one year and left behind his children, wife and parents. This situation happened to his relatives.

Although some of the relatives around me have died, most of them feel that the death of the elderly is reasonable because they are all grandparents.

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Gentlemen should be cautious and not cheat in the dark room,
Loyal and self-motivated, including chapter can be chaste.
A man stands between heaven and earth,
When we support heaven and earth,
Do things openly and honestly.
Self discipline, self-discipline, self-discipline, and insight.

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Once advocating "life is a toss", I now begin to believe in the idea of "no toss" of "thick accumulation" and "wait and see its change".

Whether it's work or family, it will be my main theme in 2024 to be safe, hide the edge and not struggle. 2024 is the Year of Dragon, the first day of the lunar calendar, and it is also my birth year.

Although I am not a superstitious person, I do not know what is the internal relationship between the birth year and a person's state? But in terms of human growth, 12 years is a very interesting cycle.

My 1-12 years old is a period of physical and character development. Living in a remote village, I have grown up healthily and cultivated a good character of loving learning and life. I am at an age of ignorance.
My 13-24 years old is a stage of learning knowledge, rich knowledge and survival skills of human beings; Living in a larger county or city, I passed the examination of the ideal school through hard study, met a sincere love, and reserved knowledge for entering the society. I also had the ambition to do something with enthusiasm.
At the age of 25-36, I was totally inferior to the society. I was beaten by the society, experienced social baptism, and constantly adjusted my three views. Under the spur of work and reality, I tried to find a way suitable for my life in a larger tier one city. Married, had children, bought a house, settled down

Don't know what will happen to me in the next 12 years? I don't know. It's time for a 36 year old man to calm down and think about how to spend the next 12 years.