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Well, why did we break up?

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2016 / 7 / 9

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The reason why all relationships become weak is not that one doesn't say, one doesn't ask, let alone ask.

I have been to Starbucks these days because my home network has been cut off. Yesterday, two girls sat on the sofa next to me chatting idly. One of the girls answered the phone and said, "I'm not angry, no, ah, are you still busy? You're okay, I'm busy." After hanging up, another girl asked, "Is your boyfriend? Why don't you say why you're angry? You just told me a lot." The girl who answered the phone said, "He's stupid? He doesn't know I'm angry, but he asked me if I'm angry? I'm so angry. "

When I heard this, I was sweating all over my face. I was very angry. Why didn't I say it? The other party had to think about it. How could the roundworm in my stomach guess it? Isn't it my own fault?

It seems that many girls have their own attribute, called duplicity.

Me, too.

I don't know if you remember. When we broke up, he told me that he was too tired to be with you.

Now think about it. It's really tiring to guess what I want every day.

What kind of girl is the most hypocritical? She never tells what she thinks, but let others guess!

You don't think that way at all. Why do you say that.

I was at home every day and didn't work. He came to pick me up for dinner after work in the evening.

At the time when My Childhood was on the air, I wanted to watch it.

There is a cinema upstairs at the shopping mall where I'm going to have dinner,

When getting on the elevator, I said to him, "I want to see a movie.".

He said, "I'm tired of going to work. Can you watch it on the weekend?"

I said, "Oh, yes."

But to be honest, the more I think about it, the more angry I am. He doesn't sleep even when he comes home! I also play games at home. Why can't I watch movies with me? Just go home and play games.

I said angrily, "I don't want to eat anymore. Go back."

He looked puzzled and said, "What's wrong with you? Why don't you eat?"

I said, "I just don't want to eat. Go back. I'm not hungry anymore."

I turned to get off the elevator, and he pulled me:

"You said, what's wrong with you? Why don't you eat when you are fine?"

"Don't go, talk, what's wrong with you?"

"I drove to your house in a traffic jam for more than an hour in order to have dinner with you. If we drive to another point here, you will stop eating?"

"Then you are not hungry"

I didn't speak. I left him and walked to the parking lot. He talked in the back and followed me all the way.

When I returned to the car, I felt very aggrieved. I waited at home for a day. In order to wait for him to eat, I didn't accompany me to see a movie. I just played games. Is it not important for me to play games? I drove downstairs to my house, got off, opened the door and left.

He was also angry and didn't speak all the way.

I got off the bus and began to cry. I cried all night until the next night, he came downstairs to apologize.

He looked at me and asked me, "Why were you angry yesterday?"

I'm surprised that he didn't know!

I said, "Because you said you wouldn't go to the movies! You can go home and play games. Why don't you accompany me?"

He was very helpless: "I asked you that, but you didn't say anything. If you really want to see it, just go. I'm just tired of sitting, and I want to go home and lie down for a while."

Now think about it, I'm really sick. It's just a movie. If I'm not satisfied, I'll just say, why can you go home and play games instead of watching movies with me. Even if you don't watch it today, it's the same for tomorrow. He drove so far that he got a breath and went home hungry. He didn't even know why he was angry. Anyone else would be confused.

Sometimes, I can't sleep at night and lie down to remember my original self. It's so hypocritical!

In fact, there are countless examples.

One weekend I wanted to go back to Dalian, but they didn't have a holiday for their company's activities. They needed to take a group holiday. They asked me if I could wait. I said, "Oh, it's OK, so I won't go." But I was not happy at all because there was a BigBang concert that weekend. I wanted to go to see BinBang's concert, so I didn't say a word at the weekend. I bought tickets for the concert and went to Dalian to see it myself.

He asked me why I went to Dalian, but I didn't say. He was so angry that he asked me why I didn't tell him and ran out without saying anything. I was also very angry. I asked him whether he would go or not, and blamed me?

So throughout the concert, I have been sending messages and complaining with him. I didn't watch very well, and the whole audience went to the concert by myself. I was the only one. People were lovers, friends, and extremely lonely! At the end of the concert, I stayed in the hotel alone for one night. I felt particularly miserable. The more I thought about it, the more angry I became. I quarreled with him all night and cried at the same time. I drank all the beer in the refrigerator of the hotel, and when I lay in bed angrily, I wanted to say goodbye.

He asked me, "Why didn't you say you wanted to go to the concert? How did you say I knew there was a concert? I didn't even recognize them."

Not to mention the rest:

What do you want to eat tonight? It's optional, but you don't like it;

Wherever you want to go, you can go. As a result, it's boring to go there;

What do you want for your birthday? It's casual. I didn't like it at all;

How do you want to spend Christmas? Tell me, the result is not satisfactory at all.

Others pretended to be polite when they had already made a promise:

——I will accompany you to go shopping tonight. Oh, no need. I know you are busy, but I can do it myself. I really didn't come. I became angry;

——What time will you fly tomorrow night? I will pick you up. I'm so grown up. Don't bother. I can do it. I really didn't pick you up at last. I scolded all the way angrily when I took a taxi;

——I'll cook for you in the evening. What do you want to eat? I'll prepare and cook. It's so hard. Just take a bite of it. I didn't do it. I complained while eating. Don't you say you cook?

——I can buy the cheap one if you want it. Save some money. I really bought the cheap one. I'm not happy after I bought it.

Really, now think about it, I'm too hypocritical.

Obviously, I don't think so in my heart, but I just want to say that. I also want others to guess the central idea. If I don't guess correctly, I will get angry.

I don't know where I come from. I have the courage to expect others to surprise me all the time.

I think that if we fall in love again in the future, we will never make such low-level mistakes again.

When I am unhappy, I will say: "I want you to go to a movie with me!" "I want to eat hot pot!" "Of course it's that expensive bag!" "I hope to be with you." That's why I am angry!

The reason why all relationships become weak is not that one doesn't say, one doesn't ask, let alone ask.

So, if there is another time, I really won't.