What are the difficulties of remarriage after divorce?

A love of thousands of miles

After divorce, life has to go on
The wound that is difficult to heal can also be carried forward as long as it knots ().

The key factor in the difficulty of divorce,
1. With or without baby

Generally speaking, those with children are more difficult to remarry than those without children.
2. Gender
If a man does not bring a baby, he is financially independent, so he does not have to eat soft food. With normal personality, it is very easy to remarry. If the economic conditions are good, it is simply a hot potato.

If a woman does not bring a baby, unless she is particularly beautiful, as long as she has a little request, it is much more difficult.

These are my observations and judgments,

Invincible and most handsome

It's all about marriage. Let's study something else

Mature cucumber

Divorced women like to pick, and always want to be better!!!

A love of thousands of miles

Mm-hmm. What amy said is understandable

CherryCat

reply Mature cucumber 's post

Is it unrealistic for a divorced man? It's just the essence of human nature. Why rush to jump into another pit when it's not easy to get out of one pit? The man who has a baby after divorce will not think about marriage anymore if he has a good condition, but just want a partner to solve his physiological needs. The man who has a bad condition after divorce will think about marriage more if he has a baby after divorce, and can improve the quality of life. The man who has no baby after divorce is eager to get married, that is to think about inheriting the family quickly.

A love of thousands of miles

CherryCat published on April 8, 2024 09:36

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Is it unrealistic for a divorced man? It's just the essence of human nature. Why rush to jump into another pit when it's not easy to get out of one pit? A man who has a baby after divorce will not think about marriage if he has good conditions, but only needs a partner who can meet his physiological needs. Even worse, a man who has a baby after divorce will not think about marriage

Both are realistic. I think the characteristics of reality do not bring pessimism. If two people are self interested, understand altruism, and cooperate well, the reality is actually pragmatic.

river crab

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Yinma River

Divorce means that we have not handled our personal feelings and selected the right person. We need to sum up how to handle our feelings and get along with others.
Maybe the other one is the main problem, and I also have shortcomings.

Houhou 007

If I get divorced, I should belong to your sweet cake type, but I will never easily remarry. The current wife is too powerful, even hitting people in the early stage. She is completely unreasonable, and can't make sense. It has made me afraid of women, even disgusted with women. My heart can't stand another blow.

A love of thousands of miles

Houhou 007 was published at 10:55 on April 12, 2024

If I get divorced, I should belong to your sweet cake type, but I will never easily remarry. The current wife is too powerful, even hitting people in the early stage. She is completely unreasonable, and can't make sense. It has made me afraid of women, even disgusted with women. My heart can't stand another blow.

That's being coquettish. See where and how to fight. If you play ambiguous parts, it is to ask for and give you steps.

If it's a slap in the face, slap the face. Or kick, it is a signal of breaking up.

A love of thousands of miles

Before I got divorced, I thought I could not live after divorce.
Just a few years after the divorce, I felt that divorce would hurt my children too much, and I stayed in hatred for my ex husband's selfishness all day long.
This mood is not conducive to raising children and living alone.

But now I think divorce is his choice. Although this choice conflicts with my interests, I must bear it.

Houhou 007

reply A love of thousands of miles 's post

In the early stage of love, I hit people when I quarreled. That's my temper

Big head, big head

Why must we remarry? This is an option, not a must

Running rabbit.

I am a man. If I divorce, I will never marry. It is not because I am sad about women. It is because I can play with all women after divorce. My children have also been born, and I have also given jobs to my parents. * * remarried. Now I am trapped by marriage responsibilities, and I cannot play with women. Alas, if I were single, I would like to play with some local small flat models in Wuhan, Buy an lv basic fund, and don't play with you for three days. If you play with some college students, the price is cheaper, it is really cost-effective, and don't sell it, but love it, you can also travel with me. My brother has never been married. Every time he travels, he takes a different sister. I can afford his expenses, but I can't go because he is married, Alas, I really envy him (don't say I'm a scum man. I told my wife that I would never marry again if I got divorced. My wife knows that I like to play with women, and that I have always resisted my desire for marriage. Alas, it's a tough guy.)

Mood Inn

It is not difficult to be picky or compare vertically and horizontally. In fact, for some people, divorce is a kind of progress, is a kind of liberation, unnecessary not to remarry.