When dad Take a good look at everything, and then children Don't blame others if you don't give strength. Children are the shadow of fathers. I hope every father who has read the full text can become a Good father How high the father's quality is, how high the child can fly!
⑴ Dad is the best teacher for children
How high the father's quality is, how high the child can fly. Help children with rational fatherly love healthy The key to educating children is to grow up and improve their own quality. Correct "navigation" is the first responsibility of fathers, so that children can learn life Responsible. Behind every problem child, there is a problem father. Dad should also learn from his children. Don't forget to cultivate their sense of community and plant a seed of "ideal" for them.
⑵ 99% of children succeed in taking 1% of father's changes
Changing children starts with changing fathers. There are no children who can't teach well, only fathers who can't teach. "Weak" fathers teach "strong" children and attach importance to cultivating their hobbies and expertise. Put on a coat of praise for criticism. Don't take the exam results as the criteria for evaluating children. Be a "muddle headed" father. Dad should learn to save face for children.
⑶ The "tutor psychology" that father must understand
Have positive mentality Only in this way can we have a good future, be optimistic, make our children's future full of sunshine, be independent, let them choose their own life, be confident, and find life It aims to dispel jealousy and chemotherapy for children's psychological cancer. The confidence comes from the father's trust, defeats selfishness and corrects the children's sense of "egoism".
⑷ Ten qualities that father must give to children
Gratitude It is also a kind of cultivation.
tolerant Teach children to learn "psychological transposition".
Optimism opens the door to a bright future for children.
Confidence, building the golden triangle of children's motivation.
Honesty is the passport of children's life.
Diligence, cultivate children's diligent "bee" spirit.
Etiquette is the "card" of children's social interaction.
Responsibility, implant the sense of responsibility into children's heart garden.
Be strong, let the young shoulder not be afraid of difficulties.
Self determination, let the space for growth be more free.
(5) To be a "financial adviser" for children
Teach children to learn rational consumption, and prevent children from following“ money ”Look, give children the knowledge of pocket money.
⑹ good habit Decide the future of children
Cultivate children's spirit of cooperation, cherish time like gold, and have a knack for scheduling. Cultivate children's habit of labor and good living habits. Save, make life richer, and cultivate children's habit of learning. Good hygiene, good body , train children to be good thinking Habits, cultivate good manners and manners.
(7) Dad's "quality education"
Explore creativity and give children eyes that are good at discovering. Improve understanding and let children start from reading. Concentrate and develop the habit of concentration. Enhance memory and give children golden efficiency. Let children have colorful sky by using their imagination. Exercise observation and stimulate children's curiosity.
(8) 11 "Don't"
Don't let fatherly love lose its reason
Don't let your children always revolve around your "thoughts"
Don't always limit children to the authority of their father
Don't judge children by their own "standards"
Don't impose your interests on children
Don't "pay" for children's mistakes
Don't measure children with "scores"
Don't always emphasize children's "weaknesses"
Don't plan your child's life, let him explore it by himself.
Don't play hardball with rebellious children. The key is guidance.
Don't encourage children's vanity
(9) Seven sentences that hurt children most
"You are so stupid"
"Get out of here"
"For so many years, you have been fed for nothing".
"Don't you see I'm busy? I'll talk about it later".
"See how I deal with you"
"Look at the XX next door. It's much better than you.".
"Don't think that when you grow up, I can't control you".
(10) Six details of father's education
Love ratio money More important
Punctuality is to keep your integrity foundation
Don't let children be confined to their own world
Turn setbacks into opportunities for children's growth
No matter how rich you are, you have to suffer
Don't be pitiful, be responsible for yourself.
(11) "13 magic weapons" to improve children's competitiveness
Focus - let children focus
Bearing - learn to bear external pressure
Challenge - summon up courage to climb to the peak of victory
Distinguishing between right and wrong is the foundation of society
Cooperation -- cultivating teamwork ability
Eloquence -- Lotus with tongue, making a better life
Reflection - Let children not make the same mistakes
Win or lose - face victory and failure correctly
Communication -- the dissolver of suspicion and confrontation
Affinity -- being a popular person
Responsibility - competitiveness over ability
Contingency -- let the mind break through the cage
(12) Let children love learning
Don't be a "high-pressure" father
Find the interest that captured children's learning
Do not "label" children
Timely adopt "shepherd style" education
Cleverly set "traps" to stimulate children's thirst for knowledge
Turn disadvantages into advantages: low land becomes sea, low people become king
(13) Give children time to have fun
Give the child a good environment to have fun
Make the best use of the situation to teach and enjoy
Let children no longer "love each other"
Ignite children's imagination
Be a role model for children
Urge him with "consequences" in time
Timely praise children's "love learning"
Cultivating "self-management" is fundamental
(14) Cultivate children's "specialty"
Be a child's eye "Bole"
Maintain children's enterprising interest
Push the boat along the current to be an "effective" branch.
Don't let children's enthusiasm "sleep soundly"
Take precautions, starting from "strengths".
(15) Seven lessons that change a child's life
Example teaching: qualified father, the beginning of excellent children.
Communication class: better communication and better understanding
Responsibility lesson: Dad is the water, and children are the rudder of progress.
Critical lesson: guide children to enter the correct channel
Praise class: Don't be stingy with praise
Happiness class: plant a "sunflower" and harvest a positive life.
Love class: shaping children's healthy personality
Success lesson: plant good seeds and grow rich fruits. "If you care, there are complaints everywhere.
