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Chen Hongmei, female, 48 years old, is a very ordinary rural woman in Yangwan Community, adhering to the traditional virtues of Chinese women.
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For more than 10 years, she has consistently served her father-in-law who was hemiplegic due to stroke. From combing his hair, cutting his hair, beating his back, cutting his nails, pouring tea, serving meals, washing clothes and other trivial things in his daily life to helping his father-in-law walk to see a doctor and other aspects, she has analyzed the tall image of simple and ordinary rural women. She is the epitome of thousands of rural women, Harmony shows the true feelings, ordinary shows the great.
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She is an ordinary rural woman; She is an ordinary peasant daughter-in-law; She has served her father-in-law who suffered from serious stroke for more than ten years. As always, she is meticulous, never gives up, and has no regrets. Her filial piety has infected the surrounding people. Her deeds have been spread all over the surrounding villages. She is Comrade Chen Hongmei from Yangwan Community. A very ordinary rural woman, a rural woman who respects the old and loves the young, is considerate, loves her husband and children, and inherits the traditional virtues of Chinese women.
As the saying goes, "Long illness has no filial son", but she used her own practical actions to break through the fable that has no scientific basis for many years. For more than 10 years, she has consistently served her father-in-law who was hemiplegic due to stroke. From combing his hair, cutting his hair, beating his back, cutting his nails, pouring tea, serving meals, washing clothes and other trivial things in his daily life to helping his father-in-law walk to see a doctor and other aspects, she has analyzed the tall image of simple and ordinary rural women. She is the epitome of thousands of rural women, Harmony shows the true feelings, ordinary shows the great.
In the face of praise from others, she always said lightly: "I'm just doing my duty as daughter-in-law, wife and mother". People who know him say that she is a dutiful daughter-in-law, a good wife and a good mother. She is inheriting the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation with her words and deeds. "
1、 My parents in law said, "It's better to have a good daughter-in-law than a good son"
In 1993, Chen Hongmei, 25, came into the family with the girl's innocence. For more than 20 years, she has worked hard for the family in silence. In October 2005, her father-in-law, who had lived with her for more than 10 years, suddenly suffered a stroke, resulting in hemiplegia. In order to make her father-in-law recover as soon as possible, she would help him walk in the yard every day no matter how busy and tired he was after work. Later, her father-in-law's illness worsened. She fed him water and food every day, and washed and rinsed. As the saying goes, "There is no filial son before a long illness", but my father-in-law has been lying in bed for more than 10 years. She combs her hair, cuts her hair, beats her back, cuts her nails, and serves her father-in-law carefully. She is never bored. My father-in-law said to everyone, "It's better to have a good daughter-in-law than a good son. My Xiaomei treats me better than my daughter."
In order to take care of her sick father-in-law in bed, she seldom goes to her parents' home. She also comes and goes in a hurry once in a while. Every time she looks at the old mother's reluctant expression, she has an unspeakable guilt in her heart. In order to relieve her father-in-law's boredom, she has to tell him some new things outside and news in the newspaper every day. My father-in-law has an eye disease and can't see clearly. In order to reduce bumps, she has to serve meals to him every day, three meals a day, 365 days a year. This has become an invincible rule. My father-in-law has tracheitis and will get sick every winter. In order to prevent him from getting sick, she bounced two quilts into a soft quilt and put it on him in the early autumn. Before going to work in winter, she always put the food on the coal fire so that her father-in-law could eat hot food whenever he got up. Her father-in-law loves cleanness. She always changes and washes her clothes and sheets to keep them clean. During her father-in-law's cataract surgery in the hospital, she went to the hospital whenever she was free. She could not tell whether she was a daughter-in-law or a woman at all. The patients in the same room thought she was the old man's daughter. The old man was moved and said, "I have regarded her as my own daughter for a long time!" For many years, the old man always called her first regardless of serious or minor illnesses, She has become the greatest spiritual support for the elderly.
Under the careful care of Chen Hongmei, my father-in-law lived happily. Although he was old, he was hale and hearty and radiant. When he met people, he said, "Chen Hongmei is my good daughter. She is a good person, and good people will be rewarded."
2、 The husband said, "Her support is my motivation to work hard."
Her husband works in Conch Cement Plant. She knows and understands her husband. In order to support him to do his job well, she undertakes all housework. In order to do housework, she never took a nap at noon for so many years, and often worked late at night.
The biggest secret for her and her husband to get along well is that the communication between them is very good. They often open their hearts to each other to chat. In dealing with family matters, the husband and wife can treat each other equally, communicate with each other, negotiate and decide together, so that both parties can feel comfortable in handling every major event. They run their homes industriously and thriftily, arrange their wages reasonably, and never waste money. Cultivating children to go to school and other trivial things in life rarely worry the husband, so that he can work safely. With her inside and outside the family, orderly, stop and go.
3、 My son said, "My mother is my best teacher.".
Chen Hongmei deeply understands that parents are the first teachers of children, and their words and deeds directly affect their children. From childhood to adulthood, she did not talk too much or preach empty words, but used her own words and deeds to influence her son. Under her influence, her son was full of filial piety, love and ambition at a young age. Every time he buys his son's favorite food, his son always gives it to his grandparents first, and they force it into their mouths if they don't eat it; When Grandma died, his teenage son knelt beside her and bowed three heads to her in return for her love; When my father was not at home, my grandfather was ill, and my son stayed with him all night, so my grandfather was moved to tears; On his way to and from school, his son often meets some disabled people who beg. Every time, he will give them all his pocket money; The school organizes donations to students in need or ill, and the son donates everything he has; When encountering an old man by bus, his son preemptively gives up his seat and helps the old man to the seat; On rainy days, my son always gives his umbrella to his classmates who are far away from home. Now, his son, who has graduated from college, respects the old and loves the young, works hard and has made great achievements.
Other people's Sundays are generally a day for recuperating and having fun. And her Sunday was the busiest day of the seven days. Pick up and send children to the second class, accompany their families to the food market, and cook delicious food Her husband said with deep feeling that "it is the daughter-in-law who has given his family warmth and happiness. He is the mediator of our family, and she has paid too much for the family!" But she was happy and deeply satisfied and gratified. He believed that being a good daughter-in-law, wife, mother, a prosperous family, a prosperous people, and a smooth job is his greatest happiness.
She is diligent and dedicated. She respects the old and cherishes the young. She unites her neighbors and cares for her colleagues. She is like a big tree with luxuriant branches and leaves. Day after day, year after year in the hot summer days, she silently sends shade after shade to everyone passing by the tree, a trace of fragrance, no confession, no return.
As a good daughter-in-law, Chen Hongmei has no earthshaking deeds, no shocking confession, and no heroic words. She buried herself in doing what she thought she should do with a typical oriental female mentality, engraved the word "filial piety" deeply in her dictionary, and expressed the simplicity of "filial piety".
Neighbors all said that Chen Hongmei had the most sincere heart of filial piety. They said that their family respected the elders and respected the old and loved the young. Chen Hongmei's filial piety to her mother-in-law, love for her uncle, and especially her act of respecting her father-in-law were highly praised by the surrounding people and deeply affected the surrounding villagers. Chen Hongmei's deeds were widely praised in the surrounding villages. Everyone was educated and moved in the eulogy. In the eulogy, people were pure in heart and learned from examples. It has vigorously advocated the excellent traditional virtues of respecting, loving and caring for the elderly, and has set an example for creating a harmonious family and building a harmonious society.
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