Yong Tailin, Liu Shouping: a loving couple who try their best to cure women's diseases and never forget to give back to the society

Source: Jiangsu Civilization Network December 2021

Story: A loving husband and wife who try their best to cure women and never forget to give back to the society

Introduction: Yong Tailin, male, born in 1981; Liu Shouping, female, born in 1981, is an employee of Dongjue Organic Silicon (Nanjing) Co., Ltd. In 2014, Yong Tailin and his wife adopted a girl in Nanjing Children's Welfare Institute. After adoption, the girl suffered from neuroblastoma. They tried their best to take their children to Beijing and other places to seek medical advice. During the treatment of her daughter, social caring people gave great support. In order to give back to the society, the couple has participated in unpaid blood donation for more than 50 times, and set up a family group of neuroblastoma patients on the Internet to provide help to patients all over the country within their ability.

Yong Tailin, male, born in August 1981; Liu Shouping, female, was born in June 1981. The husband and wife are ordinary villagers of Xi'er Village, Qiaolin Street, Pukou District, Nanjing. They work in a nearby private enterprise. They adopted a girl in Nanjing Children's Welfare Institute in April 2014. After adoption, they found that the child was suffering from neuroblastoma, and the doctor judged that she could only live for half a year. Over the past five years, they have been searching for famous experts in specialized hospitals in Beijing, Tianjin, Shenyang, Dalian and other places for their children, doing everything they can to lose their money. In order to repay the care of all sectors of society, the couple has donated blood for more than 50 times without compensation, and set up a family group of neuroblastoma patients on the Internet to help patients across the country and repay the society with voluntary services. In recent years, Yong Tailin and Liu Shouping have been honored as "Good Citizens of Nanjing" and "Beautiful Pukou People".

The adopted baby girl who is unable to bear suffers from severe illness

Yong Tailin and his wife Liu Shouping grew up in the same village. They liked children since childhood. It seems that God played a joke on them and they have been unable to have children since marriage. Since the failure of their IVF in November 2011, the couple have started to ask relatives and friends to adopt a child. Before long, she received a phone call from the staff of the Nanjing Civil Affairs Bureau, telling her that she could go to the children's welfare home to adopt her child. In the early morning of April 14, 2014, they arrived at the Nanjing Children's Social Welfare Institute in the main city by bus. When she and her husband were led into the children's room by the staff, the baby girl in front of her smiled when she saw her. She bent down to pick up the child, and the baby girl giggled. She and her husband almost shouted with one voice: "God's gift, we will adopt this child!" The couple named the child Yong Enqi, which means thanking the kind people for their help, Life can create miracles. But the happy and peaceful life is sometimes so short. In the year when the child who often has colds and coughs was less than two years old, the hospital diagnosis almost made the whole family collapse. The child suffered from neuroblastoma, which is a rare and difficult kind of cancer to cure. The doctor told them that the cure rate of neuroblastoma is very low at present, and the probability of a two year old child is lower. It is recommended to give up the treatment, or it will lead to a situation of empty people and money.

Running around, carrying children to seek famous experts

Xiao Enqi's neuroblastoma grows in the right abdomen, connecting three aorta. Because the tumor is relatively large, it can only be operated after chemotherapy is reduced. After three times of chemotherapy, Xiao Enqi's tumor shrank and met the surgical requirements. From no hope to see hope, the couple just showed a trace of comfort. But the child's tumor was too tightly connected to the three main arteries. The operation could only remove 70% of the tumor, but also one kidney. In order to prevent the child from losing a kidney, they traveled all over the country, and finally found an expert at the Beijing Children's Research Institute, Dr. Li Long, who could protect the kidney for resection. After preparing the operation expenses, she successfully completed the operation in Beijing with Enqi, a two-and-a-half year old.

From the surgery in Beijing to March this year, in less than four years, Xiao Enqi's complications and tumor recurrence have never stopped, and surgery and chemotherapy have never stopped. In order to have a good treatment for their children, they carried their children everywhere in Shanghai, Beijing and Shenyang to seek well-known experts in specialized hospitals. As long as there was a glimmer of hope, the couple would make a hundred times more efforts.

Never give up There are many kind-hearted people to help

Due to the metastasis of cancer cells and the occurrence of physical complications, Xiao Enqi needs surgery and chemotherapy at any time. Xiao Enqi's blood type is also a rare "panda blood". Before each operation, she has to look for volunteers of "panda blood", but she has never worried. As long as they send a message on the blood donation website, these volunteers can take the initiative to contact and rush to the hospital in time to donate blood for free. Some of them are from Jiangning, Nanjing, Suzhou, Hangzhou, and some of them take the initiative to leave their contact information in case of need. Whether in Nanjing or in other places, children who want to use blood for surgery will go to the hospital by car at their own expense to donate blood for Enqi. Little Enqi's rare blood type has never been scarce.

In the process of treating her children, she has noble people to help her wherever she goes, and kind-hearted people to help her. The cost of each operation or chemotherapy for Enqi is up to several hundred thousand, down to ten or twenty thousand. It can be said that she and her husband can't afford to lose their money even with their income. But every time the treatment cost is not enough, the volunteers on the volunteer websites such as Easy Fund and Love Fund can donate money to solve the problem. The first resection operation in Beijing required 500000 yuan for treatment, and the Foundation donated 200000 yuan at one time. During her stay in Beijing, after her story of losing all her money to cure the abandoned adopted daughter was reported by the media, she went to the hospital to visit them, and good people who donated money, materials and spiritual comfort to them came one after another.

She and her husband are both blood donation volunteers

For the sake of this loving society and in return for the help of these kind people, she and her husband decided to do something for the society and others. In the drawer of her home, there are a pile of unpaid blood donation certificates, including those issued in Nanjing, Beijing, Shenyang and other provinces and cities. She and her husband became two unpaid blood donation volunteers from the second year when the child saw a doctor. She has donated blood and platelets more than 30 times, and her husband has donated more than 20 times. No matter where she and her husband go, they never forget to go to the blood collection point to donate blood. When I saw on the Internet that blood banks were in short supply, they went to donate the next day. The wife has obtained the consent of her family and promised to donate her cornea and other useful organs after her death to return to the world of love.

They also registered a family group of neuroblastoma patients on the network, named "Shenmu Lianzhan Group". She and her husband are the group leaders, so that patients with the same disease can communicate with their families, and exchange methods and experience of treatment and rehabilitation. At present, this group has more than 200 group friends from all over the country, including patients, patients' families, as well as experts and doctors from some large hospitals. Some patients suffered from mental breakdown when they just got sick. She and her husband took turns to enlighten them, telling stories about their daughter's struggle against the disease, listening to the patient's condition, providing corresponding treatment hospitals and experts with their experience and experience, so that they could be treated as soon as possible and avoid detours. Their daughter died in February 2021, and the "Shenmu Lianzhan Group" can still see the figures of Yong Tailin and Liu Shouping. In the group, they cheer up the patients and their families, exchange their conditions and treatment methods with them, and recommend doctors for them. They believe that "the disease is merciless, and there is love in the world!"