The heart is like flowers and trees, growing towards the sun

Author: Zhao Congchao

Dear daughter:

Time is really fast. Before you know it, you are going to take the high school entrance exam. The high school entrance examination is undoubtedly an important crossroad in life for everyone. The scene when I took the high school entrance examination in those years is still fresh in my mind, as if it was yesterday. In a twinkling of an eye, my daughter is about to step on such a battlefield. How can I not be filled with emotion! Sitting under the desk lamp, I have a lot of thoughts. I feel that I have a lot to say to you.

You have entered the third day of junior high, which is an important stage in your life. The high school entrance exam will be held in more than 70 days. For you, it may be a watershed. With outstanding achievements, you will have the opportunity to enter a good high school and more opportunities to enter a good university; If your grades are not good, you may face going to a vocational high school, technical school, or some vocational schools. If you are cruel, your life will be rewritten. After spring plowing and summer hard work, you finally ushered in the golden autumn of harvest. "The sword edge comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." "The most difficult time is the day not far from success." The enemy has been besieged by thousands of people, and I am firmly rooted. You should keep a good attitude. The high school entrance examination is not only a contest of intelligence and perseverance, but also a contest of psychological quality. While you are struggling tenaciously and thinking scientifically, you should also pay attention to your mentality, and face the high school entrance exam with a common mind. This will let you put down the burden, go into battle light, and go further.

You may always think that you are a person, and you are indomitable with your courage, but you never know that we have built a world for you to explore when you were dull and ready to move. You are there to toss about and grow up wantonly, and you don't know the height of heaven and earth. Little did we know that you were always under our wings. We will try our best to give you the freedom and maximum development space within the safest range. But you always think this is from our exile. We understand you if we have already experienced these things. We really don't care. Even though our ages are as different as mountains across the sea, we have the patience to accompany you to grow up. Everyone is destined to accept the baptism of the society. When the big waves wash the sand, no progress, no retreat. It is impossible for everyone to have a smooth sailing, and sometimes success through setbacks is even more precious. I often wonder how I came here step by step. I must have had hesitation, confusion, hesitation, and even retreat and fear like you. In confidence and inferiority, in hope and disappointment, in suffering and harvest, keep struggling, keep wandering, keep swinging. After the last exam, you cried. It's the first time I've seen such a big cry. I can feel the bitterness and pressure in your cry, as well as your strength and unwillingness. From primary school to junior high school, you always stood at the front and fell down. The pain is self-evident. Looking at you, I feel like a knife in my heart. Crying out is a kind of release and relief, which can make you more sober and firm. In a sense, it is also a good thing.

When you feel confused, you can look up and take a look at the distance, and you can see that you are ready to answer questions in the examination room of the college entrance examination, you can see that the lecture hall of the university you want is waving to you, and you can see that you are able to display your talents in the position you like, but these can only be achieved if you work hard now.

We are the most ordinary people in this society, but we don't want to be ordinary and give you the best things you can, whether material or spiritual. Some people win at the starting line when they are born, which is a fact that we cannot change. However, the latecomers ranked first, and they could only spell themselves when they were born. What we can do is to try our best to narrow the gap. What's your future? You need to work hard. In this world, only you are strong enough can you see all beings. No matter what your future is like, your parents love you the most in this world. As your parents, we hope you can get good grades, enter a good high school, and go on the road of college entrance examination. This is also the best explanation for three years of junior high school study. However, we hope you can be physically and mentally healthy. Don't be extreme, don't go astray, don't delay your youth.

One of the most popular words on TV recently is "Take the road of youth again." We don't want to say this to you. Youth is the most beautiful, life can only spend one youth, any return to youth is a hypocritical nonsense. Time will not go back. All the teachers, classmates and friends who accompanied you are moving forward, and no one will stop to wait for you to turn back. So, cherish it! Cherish the teachers and parents who have worked hard for you; Cherish friendly classmates and friends; Cherish your sweat. The only result of testing "treasure" is to show proud achievements and repay all these.

For us, you are our only child. We don't want to hear your pessimistic and self defeating words. But on the other hand, we are surprised to see your changes. When Mom is sad, you will put your arms around her shoulder. When Dad is angry, you will laugh and dissolve it; When Grandma is injured, you know that she is busy. These are all good beginnings. They all prove that you are a kind and loving child. We are very proud of these.

Every child who grows up with love will love the world and the world more. Because he has been loved all the time, he knows how happy love is. I want to tell you: "There are ideals and beliefs. The correct ideals and beliefs are the navigation marks for your life's progress, so that you will not lose your direction when encountering setbacks. You should have firm beliefs and work hard for them. Remember, always be a person with love in mind. "

I have seen your tears at 3:30 a.m. and your renewed hope at 3:31 a.m. True gold does not fear fire. It is gold that always shines. Believe in its own strength, its own contribution, its own master, and its own destiny. With the high school entrance examination looming, the hero bent his bow and put his arrow on his bow. Everything was ready, but only the east wind was needed. The horn has sounded, please pack up, take the sharpest mind, with the most careful mind, hold the most powerful fist, and charge confidently! Because of your efforts and efforts, I firmly believe that the fruits in June will be more fragrant, and the smiling face in June will be more brilliant!

Always love your mother

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