We are willing to hear your voice;

We see your concern together.

Anecdote of New Jiangsu Commentator

The third Sunday in June is Father's Day again.

What is fatherly love like? The impression should be towering and silent. As Mr. Zhu Ziqing wrote in his "Back", although the way of expressing feelings is very implicit, the love and influence that the father gives his children is endless.

Now, as more and more "post-90s" and "post-00s" have entered the role of father, the thrilling scene of father taking baby has also begun to spread on various social media: hanging baby on the wall, washing face to feed, taking a breath to sleep... All kinds of strange painting styles are displayed in turn, and all kinds of performances of pit children are numerous. Only what you can't think of, there is nothing they can't do, and there is a saying in the street: "It's good to be alive if your father takes your baby!"

In the face of "complaining", the dads also expressed their helplessness. In their opinion, the pressure of work is very high at ordinary times, and bringing a baby is a painful thing. It is more important to find some fun to relax yourself and make life more colorful.

Indeed, to complain is to complain. From another perspective, this seems to be an "unreliable" and "unfaithful" way of bringing children, which sometimes brings children a lot of joy. A few years ago, in the video of the Tang Dynasty tumbler, a father in Shangluo, Shaanxi Province, was inspired by the little sister of the immortal tumbler. He made a real "tumbler" for his daughter: he took the quilt as a skirt, hid it under the quilt, shook it with all his strength, and her daughter rode on his head, reached out her hand and took photos in imitation of the Tang Dynasty tumbler. Meimeida was very happy. I believe that this "father version of the tumbler" will leave a very beautiful and unforgettable memory in the daughter's heart. Even if she grows up in the future, it will still be sweet and warm to remember

We can't help but find that the original "father love" is showing in another way: company does not depend on the length of time. It is also important to pay attention to and respond to children's thoughts and wishes from the heart in a timely manner, and to get along with children with "children's thinking".

"It is the father's fault whether he is raised or not." No matter how the way of "fatherly love" changes, at every stage of children's growth, the role of the father is indispensable. This is not only an identity, but also a responsibility. This responsibility is to educate children to become adults.

Unlike the mother's delicacy and gentleness, the father's great image and personality characteristics usually become a symbol of strength in the child's heart. As psychologist Jung said, mother is a role that can give children delicate, tender and careful protection, while the father's unique "male power" such as courage and authority will give children a different kind of support and become an indispensable nutrient in the process of going to the world.

We can often see these scenes in our life: the newly born father holds the newborn baby carefully with his whole body taut; Outside the college entrance examination room, sweaty dads looked forward to it in the scorching sun; When the child gets achievements, the father who leaps up is more like a child; On rainy days, father would rather wet himself, but also hold up a "sunny day" for children... We are moved by every father, which is not only the embodiment of fatherly love, but also a manifestation of responsibility.

In fact, "Dad takes baby" is not reliable only occasionally, but also temporarily. As they grow older, young dads will gradually become "old dads", and their fatherly love will become steady and deep. They will be "shy" and try to care about their children's growth through their mothers; They may also be quite stubborn in some things and have disputes with their children. But when you encounter difficulties, the "Superman" who steps on the colorful auspicious clouds to save you will always be him.

Therefore, we are grateful to every ordinary father, because they will practice their lifelong responsibilities with practical actions no matter for companionship or education. On Father's Day, let's say to all fathers: "Happy Father's Day!"