Introduction to the deeds of "Jiangsu Good Man List" in November 2017 - Huang Yuxiang

Village women with the most "beautiful" soul
2017-11-30 17:13:00 Source: Jiangsu Civilization Network

Huang Yuxiang, female, born in 1970, is a villager of Group 4, Yangqiao Village, Gaoyou Development Zone.

She is an ordinary and simple rural woman, who has served her mother-in-law over 80 years old and her husband's blind brother with no regrets for decades. For more than 20 years, she has cared for every member of the family with love, interpreted the meaning of respecting the elderly and loving relatives in the new era with words and deeds, and built a warm, harmonious and happy family with love.

Huang Yuxiang, a 46 year old woman, is an ordinary and simple rural woman who has served her mother-in-law who is over 80 years old and her husband's blind brother with no regrets for decades. She has cared for every member of the family with love for more than 20 years, interpreted the meaning of respecting the elderly and loving relatives in the new era with words and deeds, and built a warm, harmonious and happy family with love.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult in the world. She treated her mother-in-law as her own mother, and she always treated her as her own daughter. As the saying goes, "obedience is filial piety". When the old age, it is often nagging. Every time, she said to herself, "Don't haggle over small matters with the old. Although young people don't like to listen to some words, there is no malice. We should listen patiently and explain after listening, which will resolve the misunderstanding. Eight hours later, Huang Yuxiang quietly adhered to the life maxim of "filial piety when a gentleman enters" and "parents can do their best", set an example for other family members with practical actions, won praise from neighbors, relatives and friends, and also created a model image of "modern filial piety star".

Since her marriage, she has been living with her mother-in-law and her husband's blind brother. In the face of the family situation, Huang Yuxiang did not shrink back. She tried her best to help her mother-in-law dress, wash and take care of her brother with a filial, considerate and caring heart. She would go to her mother-in-law's house to help her wipe her body, turn her back, wash her face, feet and clothes every day. The 80 year old mother-in-law likes to eat fruits and snacks all the year round, and buys clothes, shoes and necessities for her mother-in-law according to the season.

As a wife, she tried her best to take care of the family, so that her husband would have no worries. People always say that behind a successful man, there must be unknown women who are contributing. Indeed, she did so, so that her husband's career has been successful in recent years, and the husband and wife are more affectionate!

As a mother, we should set a good standard for the next generation of children to respect and love the old, so that children can be nurtured in the atmosphere of love from childhood, and let them understand that love and filial piety are the responsibilities and qualities that everyone should have. Huang Yuxiang never relaxed her daughter's education even though she was busy and tired. She often teaches her daughter to be down-to-earth in learning, simple in life, kind to others, respectful to elders, honest in life and honest in doing things. Example teaching is better than precept teaching. Under her influence and infection, her daughter respects her grandmother and uncle very much. Whatever she eats, she gives it to the elders first. She has become a good child that everyone must praise nearby. In order to train children to become talents, she attaches importance to the ideological education of children's outlook on life and values, and teaches children to learn how to behave, learn to do things, and be a person who has made contributions to society. Since her husband is busy at ordinary times and the old man is unable to help take care of her, Huang Yuxiang alone undertakes the transportation of her children to school, daily care and family work. Huang Yuxiang not only pays attention to her child's academic achievements, but also pays more attention to cultivating her ability to live and study independently.

As a sister-in-law, she accompanied her blind brother through 20 years of ups and downs with love, and explained brotherhood with practical actions. Not for fame, not for profit, just for a selfless love of relatives. She and her husband have taken good care of her brother for 20 years. Although she has experienced many difficulties, she has never left him. The first thing she did after getting up was to fetch water to wash her brother's face, and then clean his room. Over the years, I have formed the habit of letting my brother finish the meal before I eat it myself. Because he was blind, he could not tell the direction and lost his way as soon as he went out. Once, I accidentally lost my brother. Fortunately, I finally found him. Huang Yuxiang said that taking care of the eldest brother requires a lot of care, and he cannot be out of his sight. After years of getting along, Huang Yuxiang was also regarded by his brother as his own sister, and his whole life depended on her.

The health of parents is the happiness of their children, the happiness of parents is the wish of their children, filial piety is the first, filial piety is the foundation of morality, and filial piety is the embodiment of kindness, the portrayal of love, the highlight of conscience, and the test of patience. Filial piety is the highest morality, noble behavior, and demeanor of life. Huang Yuxiang is silently repaying his parents' nurturing kindness with a grateful heart, practicing the virtue of children's filial piety to their parents, and at the same time, people really feel that loyalty and filial piety can achieve both.

Respecting the elderly and loving relatives has become the family style of this family. She has built a harmonious family with her love, filial piety and sense of responsibility. Although there are no grand and earth shaking deeds, she has demonstrated the demeanor of Gaoyou people with practical actions in ordinary life, demonstrating her noble virtues of filial piety, selfless dedication, and positive optimism. Huang Yuxiang's deeds are widely spread around the neighborhood, but Huang Yuxiang said that what I do is our responsibility and obligation as children; When people in the village mentioned her, they all gave her a thumbs up and said: Huang Yuxiang is a well deserved model of respecting the elderly and loving relatives! "