Huang Caiyun, a "Guangdong Good Man": Uphold an Unstoppable Home in the Wind and Rain

Southern News Network

2023-04-20

Nanfang News (reporter/Chen Weifeng) In recent years, many good people around Guangdong have emerged. They are honest, trustworthy, courageous, dedicated, filial, and helpful... These warm acts of kindness not only enhance the city's civilization, but also encourage people to move forward.

As the saying goes, "filial piety comes first", filial piety comes from the heart, and love comes from love. Huang Caiyun, born in 1981, is a villager of Shilian Village, Tangkeng Town, Fengshun County, Meizhou City. She has experienced many hardships in her life and family, but she never gives up. She carried half of the sky with her weak shoulders, and her small body conveyed great love.

Huang Caiyun

A great mother never abandons her daughter

In 2003, Huang Caiyun married from Tangkeng Town to Xinling Village, Tangxi, and gave birth to a smart, clever and sensible son with her husband. The husband's hardworking and capable son's clever and sensible made Huang Caiyun feel very satisfied, and the whole family lived a happy life. However, something unexpected happened. Huang Caiyun's daughter was diagnosed with congenital cerebral palsy shortly after her birth in 2011. Her brain and body were severely underdeveloped and she could not take care of herself.

This sad news is a bolt from the blue for mother Huang Caiyun. Her daughter's illness and the burden of life are like a heavy weight weighing on her, making her breathless. But Huang Caiyun, as a mother, is determined not to abandon her daughter. She is unwilling to bow down to her fate in this way. She took her daughter everywhere to seek medical advice. When she heard that a hospital had made great achievements in the field of cerebral palsy, she took her daughter to the hospital for treatment from a thousand miles away. However, God's will was not satisfactory. Huang Caiyun's daughter had no success in seeking medical advice. As a mother, she cried all day long.

Be filial to your son and daughter-in-law, and show no disrespect to your parents in law

The house leaks, but it rains all night long, and the boat is late and meets with a storm. In 2012, Huang Caiyun's father-in-law suffered from a sudden illness, stroke, paralysis below the spinal column, and lay in bed all year round, totally losing the ability to take care of himself. He had to rely on his daughter-in-law Huang Caiyun to take care of his daily life.

To make matters worse, in 2021, my mother-in-law was diagnosed with esophageal cancer, and often could not eat, so she could only barely eat some semi liquid food such as porridge and soup, and sometimes had chest pain and back pain, and lost her ability to work. Fortunately, the condition was found in time, and my mother-in-law is still in the early stage of esophageal cancer, which can be cured by surgery. Recently, my mother-in-law also finished the operation and removed the tumor. From illness to hospitalization, from hospitalization to returning home from hospital, Huang Caiyun cooked porridge early every day to feed her mother-in-law, and tried to make some nutritious and easy to swallow meals for her mother-in-law to eat.

In this way, day after day, Huang Caiyun took care of her meticulously to alleviate the pain of her mother-in-law's disease. Seeing that her parents in law are suffering from illness, Huang Caiyun swallows the bitter water into her stomach. After ten years, she has no regrets.

Cheerfulness and optimism ignite life hope

A series of family changes have made this family, which was not well off, even more difficult to survive. Many people said to Huang Caiyun, "Divorce is better than youth", but Huang Caiyun was very determined to respond to them: "Even if it is no matter how hard it is, I still have my parents in law to serve, and two children to support, I still have to live!"

In order to take care of two seriously ill elderly people and two underage children in the family, Huang Caiyun gets up early and goes into the dark every day. He constantly takes care of the daily life of six people in the family, feeds and feeds his father-in-law and daughter, bathes and cleans them, takes time to take them out to bask in the sun, and does all the housework in the home, such as cleaning the courtyard and bedding.

All the neighbors and friends who heard about Huang Caiyun's deeds praised her. Others said, "The Yitong family is not a good daughter-in-law. It is simply a good daughter who serves her parents in law as well as her own parents!"

Now Huang Caiyun is no longer as sad and helpless as she used to be. Instead, she is always cheerful and optimistic. She said: "It is a foregone conclusion that the child is ill. The parents love their children deeply and can only hope that she will live happily all the time."

Although his son has repeatedly asked to quit school, Huang Caiyun has repeatedly persuaded him: "Son, the family's difficulties are only temporary. Now governments at all levels really care about our family. Only by studying hard can you repay the governments at all levels, leaders and enthusiasts who care about us. Reading is your only way out". Despite the heavy burden of his family, Huang Caiyun did not give his son any psychological burden. He only asked him to study hard and be a good man, so that he could become a useful person to the society in the future.

From his mother's words, the son felt warm, saw hope, and resolutely gave up the idea of dropping out of school. He scored 519 points in the college entrance examination, which made the whole family happy for a long time. My son is filial and sensible. He said that he would like to find a good job after graduating from college to make money for his parents, grandparents and sister to live a better life.