Communication is not to brainwash one's own ideas to the other party, but to think about problems from the other party's perspective, thinking about the causes and consequences.
The key point of communication is to first say what the other party wants to hear, then say what the other party can hear, that is, first say what the other party thinks, then talk about what the other party thinks. At this time, don't rush to deny the other party, but ask why he thinks so.
Then we can talk about our current situation and facts, and then we can discuss what we wanted to say after the other party said they understood.
Communication is to adjust the frequency first, and then adjust the frequency. After the frequency is adjusted, we can communicate normally, and then we can discuss to find out