This day, as usual, I was working in the shop, and I had already got used to it. But there will always be an episode in the quiet life, which seems to be an eternal law. We have received new monitoring when we go out to work and go to the place maintained before. The boss bought us some goods first, and then we went to a place like a passenger station or renting a bus to carry out our work. In the communication and life with my brother-in-law, I felt that something was wrong more and more. This feeling is not what happened to me, but that my brother-in-law is not the person I know. Daily interaction and work communication gradually let me know more about the real man, a man who makes people angry.
At the beginning, he loved to take care of me, but gradually he became weak. Immersion in my own world and work does not mean that I need his care, but the contrast is not only light, but the feeling of completely changing a person. My elder sister also works in Baiyun, and I occasionally go to eat. I also chat with my elder sister, and I can't help vomiting to her several times. Well, it's OK not to vomit. I vomit the truth. It fully confirmed my guess and doubt. It turns out that my brother-in-law is not good at words, and he is stubborn and lives in his own world. Even if he is wrong, he will not change. He will not listen to what others say. The most important thing is that his expression ability and thinking are simply like an immature child, more like a train that can't turn, and he knows how to keep thinking forward. Life soon came close to reality. He was doing his own things at work, and occasionally went out. I looked at the store. Back to the dormitory, I never talked with me. Back to the room, I got my own things. I don't know what he is busy with all day. Anyway, he is always making trouble. My sister encouraged me to take the initiative to communicate with him. I don't have any, but I can talk about something. I'm a one track guy, and I'm not the kind of person who takes the initiative. Chatting with him also makes people angry. But who let him be my brother-in-law? I can only endure it all the time. Whenever he is angry with me, I will find my sister to vomit, so that I can balance my mind. I once wondered why my sister married him. Maybe I didn't know him at first!
How long can you endure it? There will always be a limit. Although I vomit bad to my sister every time, I always worry about it. This day came, and he went out to work. When we arrived at the work site, we cooperated with each other. When it came to wiring, because of the long distance and many turns, I had an idea. If I want to use a simpler method to complete it, I am a theorist. I will improve my idea in my mind before taking action. And he, I don't know if he wants to, anyway, he started to do it. I thought while doing it. I laid the line in my own way, but he came to me and asked me why I put it this way? I was stunned and didn't know what to say. Finally, I broke out and argued like that. No matter what I say, he doesn't care whether he believes it or not. He stubbornly believes that his method is OK and does it according to his method. I was so angry that I gave up. I went to wash my hands and buy a drink to rest. During this period, I also threw up my troubles to my elder sister, hoping to calm my anger and depression. My elder sister was also used to vomiting, so she comforted me and said that he was such a person, you don't know. What can I do? The work will continue. I will go back to help soon, and I don't care. We didn't speak much in silence, and we didn't care about the method. Let's do what we want. This day's work seems very heavy, maybe just my heart feels heavy. This event turned my little expectation of him into disappointment. After comprehensive consideration, I chose to give up. I gave up on him. Don't compete with him any more, and don't want to change his views any more. In the days after that, the work was still going on, but I would not argue with him any more and let him do it according to his own ideas. I sometimes gave some opinions and didn't care whether he listened or not. I have always worked with him without caring.
The cooperation with the boss is also gradually flawed. The salary was delayed for almost a week before it was paid, and the next one was also a little late, not very punctual. I think it is not a company after all, and such things are normal. After a few months of hard work, I became a full member of the staff, and my salary was also increased, but I still felt less. I was honest and didn't say anything because I didn't seem to have the capital to talk to the boss. An apprentice only knows how to lay wires and install monitoring devices. Assemble the computer and install the computer system. I feel that my ability has reached a bottleneck, and it seems that I have no other channels to learn. My brother-in-law will not teach me on his own initiative, nor will I ask. I am very satisfied with his expression ability and don't want to learn more. I think I have been familiar with the environment of Guangzhou, although the rhythm is still a bit behind. Based on the idea that I don't want to work with my brother-in-law, the low salary and the bottleneck of my ability, I proposed to resign. The boss asked me if I thought my salary was too low, but I didn't say it clearly. After all, it wasn't the main reason. It passed for all kinds of reasons. Anyway, I didn't want to stay. Of course, I also need to wait for the next person to pick up my job. At the same time, I unconsciously began to worry about what kind of job I could find in addition to the skills I had worked before. I am a lost lamb. I don't want to do the work I have done, and I have no firm idea about what to do. But leaving the current life is what I most desire. I did not devote myself to looking for the next job, but waited for the day of leaving. Until December, I got rid of the uncomfortable situation. I said I would look for a job, but I didn't take action. I spent another two weeks in such a comfortable life. But I didn't see any sign. My brother-in-law's eldest sister gave me a "place to go". She said that she had opened a new company with friends she knew. Her brother-in-law also knew her, and she was in Zhujiang New Town. It's just opened. It's hiring. He said that if you haven't found a job yet, you can go to see it. His brother-in-law first recommended the company's supervisor's WeChat to me, and I asked the supervisor for the address first. I decided to go and have a try. I had no choice.
I vaguely remember that the day I applied for the job was Friday, but I don't remember whether it was morning or afternoon. I first navigated on my mobile phone and came to a tall building. The company is on the 13th floor. If I worked here, it would be the first time in my life to work in such a high-end place. It would be a little pleasant to think about it. I took the elevator to the 13th floor. The company has not posted its name, and there is no front desk. I can only say hello to the director of the company through WeChat first, and the director came out and asked me to come in a moment later. After entering the company, there are only about five people in it. All the strong brothers are girls. The highest position is strong brother, who is in charge. It can be seen that the company has just started. There are not many employees and the supervisor did not interview me. Instead, a girl named Yanhua was asked to interview me. As a boy, I don't know anything about warehouse management, so there is nothing wrong with warehouse management. Yan Hua told me about her basic salary. She works nine nights and six weekends. The interview was in the hall, so I didn't have much to say, and I wouldn't ask anything on my own initiative, so I answered fairly well. She said she could come to work next Monday, but I seemed to agree at that time, and didn't say anything to consider. So I got a job. I can go to work after a weekend. I haven't worked on weekends before. How nice to think about weekends! Can play, can rest.