A and B are two high school students who haven't seen each other for many years. They met at the railway station and chatted in the waiting room. A planned to go to City A, but when he heard someone say, "People in City A are smart, and even ask for directions, they have to collect money."; And I yearn for the environment of "people in City B are kind, even if they don't do anything, they won't make you hungry". So, A proposed to exchange tickets with B, who was going to City B, and B readily agreed.
A successfully arrived in City B, and did nothing all day long, living leisurely on the handouts of others and free food from the supermarket. After tapping the first bucket of gold in City A with wisdom, B opened a cleaning company to clean the plaque for the shop. The business grew bigger and bigger, and later he opened many branches. Once when he went to city B for an investigation, a garbage collector asked him for beer bottles at the railway station. At the moment of handing beer bottles, both of them were shocked: the person who handed the bottle was B, who believed that he could make money wherever he went, and the person who received the bottle was A, who appreciated the broad mind of the people in city B.
A dramatic story, but it really happened, and is happening around you and me. After reading this story, we can't help thinking that if we go to City A, we can really become a person, but if we go to City B, we will inevitably be poor? The answer is self-evident. What on earth caused the two people's different destinies?
From the story, we can see that A is a person who is greedy for comfort and afraid of difficulties. When he heard about the situation of City A, he withdrew and chose City B, which is easier to survive; But B is not. He is a typical fighter and entrepreneur who faces difficulties. In City A, he has not only not lost confidence in survival, but also found unlimited business opportunities. Although they have the same starting point, they have different attitudes towards life pursuit, so they have moved towards different life paths.
So the obvious answer to the different fate of two people is their mentality.
Mentality is people's view and understanding of things, is their inner thoughts, and is a habit of thinking. What kind of attitude you have determines what kind of view you have on things, and this view directly determines your behavior. The combination of a series of behaviors is a person's life and destiny.
If you want to control and change your destiny and achieve success, you must pay attention to the positive role of your mentality. So how to use mentality to control and change destiny? The method is very simple, that is, actively adjust your negative attitude, make it become a positive attitude, and give full play to the power of a positive attitude.
At dusk, the optimistic people see the rising stars; Similarly, in the busy city, in the cold of steel and cement construction, people who are struggling see the rapid development and rapid change of the city; In the unchangeable passage of time, people who are grateful see the wonderful and rich years brought to us.
In fact, things exist objectively and will not change. What changes is the mentality of people. The so-called "environment is generated by the heart" is derived from this. It is because of different attitudes that people see different worlds: negative people always see failure and pain, while positive people always see sunshine and hope.
A positive attitude is the sun of life and the steed on the road to success. It shines in our hearts and accelerates the bright future of our cause. Maybe there will be setbacks, maybe there will be failures, maybe there will be pain, maybe there will be confusion, but no matter how hard it is, it will also flinch from a positive attitude. Because in the eyes of the activists, these hardships are the whetstone on the road of progress and the only way to climb the peak of life. Their belief is that there is no rainbow without wind and rain.
In order to let more people understand the importance of mentality, we have launched this book "Attitude Determines Destiny". In this book, we will introduce some spiritual energy hidden in human heart, such as subconsciousness, self suggestion, potential, etc., and analyze their role in mentality one by one. Then, from both positive and negative aspects, it tells the readers how to get rid of the negative attitude and shape the positive attitude. Finally, we will further discuss how to control the mentality to face and solve various problems encountered in growth and development, so as to create a perfect life.
Entering this book, you will begin not only a journey to acquire knowledge, but also a journey to build a mentality and learn to control your own life destiny. Dear readers, after completing this journey, I wish you a beautiful and successful life.
